Awhile ago (atleast a month) I wrote about not understanding a co-worker's idea that she can date whoever she wants until someone proposes to her. I brought it to her attention that there are two people in a relationship and although she may think this acceptable the other person maynot.
Work got busy and I didn't talk to her for awhile. I found it strange she wasn't even saying good morning to me, but I knew her case was hectic and so I didn't take it personally.
One day I'm on the same bus with her on the commute home and I say hello mention that it's been awhile since I've talked to her since she's been busy with work and ask how she was doing. She looked at me with what I can only describe as disgust, but did talk to me.
I wanted to think that that inital look she gave me was just because I was someone from work and she was frustrated about it at the time. Alas, she hasn't spoken one word to me in the past month and her office is right beside mine, it feels so awkward to me because I've never had anyone treat me this way.
I've never worked directly with her, but I work in a matrix so I could be assigned to work with her at any time. I already knew before this whole situation that we wouldn't work well together because she has such a strong personality.
I'd like to try to mend things so we'd atleast be able to work together, but I'm not even 100 percent sure I've done anything wrong. Any suggestions? I'm tempted to wait until her case is over and see what happens. However, she has done the same thing to her other office neighbour, so I don't think I'm imagining things.