My fiance and I live in Alaska, his family is here, and my family is in Colorado. No matter how hard I try, I cannot find a place or time for both families to agree on for our wedding. And it's not extended family either, it's immediate family. We want our parents and siblings to all share in our special day, and would likely deeply hurt their feelings if we only involved one side. So what do we do? Some friends have suggested that we have two ceremonies: one in Alaska, one in Colorado. But for the second ceremony we would already be married. That seems weird to me, but I want both families to be a part of the wedding. Please help me with ideas!