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Not That We're Shallow Or Anything

So, since my "not that we're vain or anything..." post was so popular, I thought we'd try again. This time, with qualities you like in your BF/FI/SO/H. What on your man's body can you not get enough of? (and no, naughty ones...i'm not talking about THAT) Seriously though, what physical attribute do you love most about your guy?

For me: his adam's apple. I know it's an odd one...trust me. My girlfriends never stop razzing me about it. I just think adam's apples can be really sexy. Something about them just makes me want to make out. Something more normal perhaps? I love BF's arms. He's pretty toned...and since I always dated tall skinny guys before, it's a change i've come to love. He gives great hugs with those arms!

Now it's your turn ladies...
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  • heyimbrenheyimbren member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm totally into arms, and BF has the best arms ever. He's got the cutest crooked smile too. And really nice eyes. The sixpack doesn't hurt either.... I sound really shallow.

    If I'm being honest, the reason I started talking to him in the first place was because I thought he was totally hot. And he's nice to boot!

  • edited December 2011
    FI has this one spot on his left cheek that doesn't grow hair (he doesn't wear a beard) - it's so soft and I love to just stroke that spot.  I also love his arms - he's one of those skinny men who never gains a pound, but his upper arms have some nice muscle definition.
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    His butt.  Seriously, I'm addicted.  He can't walk by me (when we're alone, anyway) without me patting him on the butt.  It's pretty much the best butt I've ever seen on a man.

    And it's attached to some pretty fantastic legs, too!

    I know this is weird, but I also like the amount of body hair he has.  It's enough to be masculine, without being wooly.  Is that strange?  It's definitely something I notice.

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  • LizzyTish88LizzyTish88 member
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    edited December 2011
    I love BFs height! We have the perfect amount between us that I can wrap my arms around him and snuggle right into his chest. I love just doing that when I'm having a bad day or feeling down.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:5da418e0-a639-4b88-807f-6119e68273dd">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]His butt.  Seriously, I'm addicted.  He can't walk by me (when we're alone, anyway) without me patting him on the butt.  It's pretty much the best butt I've ever seen on a man. And it's attached to some pretty fantastic legs, too!<strong> I know this is weird, but I also like the amount of body hair he has.  It's enough to be masculine, without being wooly.  Is that strange?</strong>  It's definitely something I notice.
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

    I dont' think it's strange at all! I want a man who looks like a man, but not a wookie. side note - I also think it's gross when you can see a guy's chest hair coming out of a crew-neck shirt!
  • edited December 2011
    I love FI's eyes, smile, ear lobes (yes I'm weird), hands, arms, and butt.  And he's got a pretty nice package too.  O:)
  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm with Cate, I'm in love with his butt, I have a tendency to bite it when he isn't paying attention.  Its a butt that just won't quit and the fact that he was fitted jeans doesn't help me, yes I'll bite his butt in public if no one is looking.  FI is a swimmer since childhood so it also made the small of his back more pronounced so that his butt is more pronounced too.  Second is his eyes, I love his blue eyes or his arms because yes I have an urge to sink my teeth into his biceps too. 
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:0f823ff4-6692-4bae-b267-175c51d4ef98">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]I love FI's eyes, smile, ear lobes (yes I'm weird), hands, arms, and butt.  <strong>And he's got a pretty nice package too</strong>.  O:)
    Posted by loves2shop4shoes[/QUOTE]

    Somehow I knew you'd be the one to bring this up Shoes. I think you win the "most naughty" award on this board. Or maybe "the most outwardly naughty" award...since i'm sure some of us just keep it quiet. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />
  • bethsmilesbethsmiles Denver, CO member
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    edited December 2011
    I love BF's eyes! They change color but usually they are a light bluish grey. I also love that his facial hair is red even though his hair is a dark blond.


  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:c57c831b-1fd9-4862-b585-a97c51a39d9b">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm with Cate, I'm in love with his butt,<strong> I have a tendency to bite</strong> it when he isn't paying attention.  Its a butt that just won't quit and the fact that he was fitted jeans doesn't help me,<strong> yes I'll bite</strong>his butt in public if no one is looking.  FI is a swimmer since childhood so it also made the small of his back more pronounced so that his butt is more pronounced too.  Second is his eyes, I love his blue eyes or his arms because yes I have an urge to <strong>sink my teeth into</strong> his biceps too. 
    Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]

    If i'm being honest, i'm a biter too. I have no idea why or where it comes from, but I bite more than just BF. In college I bit a stress ball and it exploded flour all over my face...hahaha. Memories...
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    I love BF's arms (which are even better because of his tattoo), his butt and his eyes.

    I also really like it when he's scruffy, as in a beard started and longer hair. i think it has something to do with the fact that when I met him he looked like a wild man because he worked in dogsledding.
  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    Definitely his eyes, they're hazel/multicolored. His face overall. His skin is AMAZING and he smells so good. His arms, too. He's really, really strong and can pick me up and fling me around like it's nothing. I second what Cate said about body hair as well. And some naughtier things which I won't go into.  :)
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:c57c831b-1fd9-4862-b585-a97c51a39d9b">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm with Cate, I'm in love with his butt, I have a tendency to bite it when he isn't paying attention.  Its a butt that just won't quit and the fact that he was fitted jeans doesn't help me, yes I'll bite his butt in public if no one is looking.  FI is a swimmer since childhood so it also made the small of his back more pronounced so that his butt is more pronounced too.  Second is his eyes, I love his blue eyes or his arms because yes I have an urge to sink my teeth into his biceps too. 
    Posted by motoLyn[/QUOTE]

    Lyn - I love that you bite your FI's butt in public.
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:45baab5b-3261-408e-bf1b-279746dfed06">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything : Lyn - I love that you bite your FI's butt in public.
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    I was just going to say that!  Lyn, you crack me up! 

    And Hazel, a dogsledder?  That's so cool, and totally something out of one of those romance novels I read as a guilty pleasure!  "The dogsledder led a cold and lonely life, until one woman lit his soul on fire."  Tee hee!

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  • desertsundesertsun member
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    edited December 2011
    I love my H's eyes and his smile. I can always feel his love for me when he looks at me. :) His butt is pretty perfect. His beard is really soft. I don't get beard burn at all, and it looks so good on him.
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  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:5ddc3b0d-304a-4153-aa36-0f6cd3d7aa30">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything : Somehow I knew you'd be the one to bring this up Shoes. <strong>I think you win the "most naughty" award on this board. Or maybe "the most outwardly naughty" award...since i'm sure some of us just keep it quiet.</strong>
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:4fd4ad32-c028-413f-a4cf-127cfb1ca56c">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything : And Hazel, a dogsledder?  That's so cool, and totally something out of one of those romance novels I read as a guilty pleasure!  "The dogsledder led a cold and lonely life, until one woman lit his soul on fire."  Tee hee!
    Posted by calindi[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, when I met him he had long hair, full beard, wore flannel shirts, long underwear, massive winter boots and a parka. Oh, and a toque (i think Americans refer to them as beanies?) tan line across his forehead. Now he wears a suit and tie every day, it's a big change,
  • motoLynmotoLyn member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:45baab5b-3261-408e-bf1b-279746dfed06">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything : Lyn - I love that you bite your FI's butt in public.
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    I've always been an odd child and I'm usually very aware of social norms.  But with FI around that logic goes out the window, and without warning I'll bite.  Even thinking about it now makes my teeth itch to sink them into him.  I was never a biter before, but his butt, his arms, his abs are flashed and *BAM* I'm like a dog on a bone.  LoL!  Reading this over I feel like a weirdo now.  Hmmm...  But FI and I are on the same page, in public we sneak in a bite here or a grope there.  Its like a game for us.
  • coastiegrl25coastiegrl25 member
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    edited December 2011
    I love his chest and his "v" ahhh sexy. 
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  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    Lyn - As weird as it sounds, it didn't strike me as weird at all when i read it. You guys seem like a very physical couple (surfing, the races that you do, etc), I just thought it was cute.

    I wonder if you have inspired Cate to start biting :)

    Edit - I forgot and fun loving.
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:42ca0595-5f32-45fa-bdfd-f71c3127d67f">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]Lyn - As weird as it sounds, it didn't strike me as weird at all when i read it. You guys seem like a very physical couple (surfing, the races that you do, etc), I just thought it was cute. I wonder if you have inspired Cate to start biting :)
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    Haha, could be!  I am much more of a grabber, though.  I like to squeeze!  But my teeth do ache a bit now...

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    But Hazel, you may have inspired me for my next romance novel (admittedly, I never finished writing the first).  I'd just use the fact that he was a dogsledder and make up everything else.  I'd probably have to pick your brain on the dogsledding and local details, though!

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  • Elle1036Elle1036 member
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    edited December 2011
    He has awesome hair.  Thick and shiny and soft.  We get in big fights whenever he starts wanting to cut it.

    And he has toothpaste commercial teeth.  Perfect.

    And he has great legs.  And a nice ass.  And pretty eyes...
  • Hazel_BHazel_B member
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    edited December 2011
    cate - I have just inspired a romance novel?
  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_not-were-shallow-anything?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d59d388e-cc75-4dd1-8b02-f7f3efea6ebePost:f5eb0611-6b9a-4686-8896-158246d2010e">Re: Not That We're Shallow Or Anything</a>:
    [QUOTE]cate - I have just inspired a romance novel?
    Posted by Hazel_B[/QUOTE]

    Maybe.  I might have to actually follow through and write it, not just the outline and a few chapters like I usually do.  I swear one day I'll finish one!  If it's the one about a dogsledder, you'd def be in the acknowledgements

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  • edited December 2011
    I love his blue eyes and he has great dirty blonde hair and I love his butt. He has such a cute butt!
  • edited December 2011
    Oh I want to play! I have a weird one I guess..... For some reason I love my BF eyebrows! lmao I don't really know how to explain it.  And his his manly jaw line, it is just so ahhh idk lol i suck at explaing things.
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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    FBD has these amazing blue eyes.  I just love them! The feeling I get when I look into his eyes is just this sense of calm, and warmth and loving...*siiiigh*

    He also has a fantastic butt.  He gets annoyed at me when I pinch it...but I do it anyways.

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  • edited December 2011
    Sounds like I am in the majority here, but I like my BF's butt and eyes. He has the perfect bubble butt and blue green eyes.

    I think he is the perfect size for me. He can wrap me up in his arms and everything feels right in the world.
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  • edited December 2011

    Bf and I both think it’s freaky that we found each other because we are *exactly* each other’s type. There is nothing I don’t love about that boy’s bod. He has really broad chest and shoulders, delicious arms, super sexy eyes that change color (especially when he wants some lovin hehe). I’m pretty petite, so when he holds me, I just got buried inside him, it’s lovely.  And, I’m sorry allusive but I have to say it, I got *very* lucky in the no-no place department.

     

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  • bltatabltata member
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    edited December 2011
    I LOVE his green eyes.  They are so stinkin' cute, especially when he's being mischievous.

    Oh and he has this broad chest and shoulders that I could touch and curl up to ALL DAY LONG.  Thank you military!
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