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Good Vibes (Work Stress)

My first event of the year is in 2 weeks, and it seems to be fallling apart at the seams.  This is not totally unexpected, as I've never had such a perpetual headache as when I was planning our last Mexico event in September.  Mexicans seem very difficult to get to confirm their attendance, and then cancel or send replacements by the bucket load in the last weeks before the event.  Last year, 10 panelists cancelled or told me they were sending replacements in the last week, and only 18 hours before the event, 2 of my 5 opening panelists cancelled.  I cried, not going to lie.  To give you perspective, our workbook is printed 2 weeks before the event, and was 50% wrong since so many people had cancelled or sent replacements.  We even added a speaker that very morning since one "panel" only had 1 speaker who showed up!!!  This is UNHEARD of at any other event, except in Mexico.

By comparison to the September event, this one came together really easily.  I've had too many speakers, if anything.  But starting last night, I'm receiving cancellations.  Some really big speakers are dropping out.  It's too late to get any other big name speakers, and I'm just keeping my fingers crossed that the majority of those who have confirmed stay confirmed.

Good vibes, ladies, please!  And any tips you may have on keeping cool in stressful situations, and managing disappointment.  I gotta hold this fort down until February 17th. 

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  • edited December 2011
    I'm sending you good vibes Cate. I hope everything works out for you!
  • edited December 2011
    You can do it! I have full faith in your planning abilities. Although I would wait to print the workbook till the day before.
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  • cu97tigercu97tiger member
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    edited December 2011
    Good vibes..... sent!

    Ok, the only thing that helps me in those frustrating situations is to immediately go into problem-solving mode. Being upset at someone for cancelling, or getting frazzled about it doesn't actually help the situation, so I immediately try to bust into 'ok, how are we going to fix this?' In your case, if there's nothing you can do about it, then you can just move on to the next thing on your task list.

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  • calindicalindi member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks girls!

    Niknik, we get them bound into book format, so they have to be printed at least 2 weeks in advance. 

    tiger, I'm totally the same way!  It's the most frustrating thing - I can't make them come to the event, so I just have to let it go.  Drives me NUTS!

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  • PaigeMcCPaigeMcC member
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    edited December 2011
    Is it weird that I LOVE event stress?  Because I thrive on it.   But I understand the pain, Cate.  GL girl, you can do eeeet

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  • marleylikeairmarleylikeair member
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    edited December 2011
    Uggghhh, that is a frustrating situation, Cate. You can get through it, though. Try not to don't stress about what you can't change. ::vibes::
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    edited December 2011
    Vibes!  You'll get through it!
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    Gooooood luck
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  • edited December 2011
    So this is in Mexico like the other events where people flaked? In the future is there any way to do a less formal or unbound book. I would find correct information more professional then a bound book. 

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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_not-engaged-yet_good-vibes?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:136Discussion:d81372a9-7a42-4f3e-b350-17fe0d50130dPost:914fba18-3ff1-4f20-be1b-8c57b0e6da71">Re: Good Vibes (Work Stress)</a>:
    [QUOTE]So this is in Mexico like the other events where people flaked? In the future is there any way to do a less formal or unbound book. I would find correct information more professional then a bound book. 
    Posted by SeaTea02[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, I agree.  Yes, the last event was in the Yucatan Peninsula (with government officials) and this one is in Mexico City (with corporate executives).  The corporations are a bit more efficient and reliable than the government officials, but in general it's the "Mexican way" to just change plans.  At least these guys have let me know!

    Unfortunately, we can't even do an informal book the day before.  It's just generally accepted in Mexico that this is how it works - these guys are so senior that it's understood that their schedules change.  We do have an agenda printed the day before with the correct speakers - but in September, even this was wrong because in the last 24 hours so much changed!  GRRR!

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    Well then, if that is the Mexican way then they should know that there is just no way to have fully accurate info in a book! You will just have to tell them too bad. You get correct info or a bound book - their choice. Especially since they decide to change things the week before.

    Is there a possibility you could call right before you have it bound to make sure of their schedules? Maybe they have a schedule by then but they are just too lazy to make the phone call to say that they aren't going to be there?

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    You can do it!!!! I know it!
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  • katanne9katanne9 member
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    edited December 2011
    : (

    I also plan events for work and can commisserate. I'm sorry Cate. Good luck!!!
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