We are meeting the priest next week.
And there is a fair chance he will be lovely and let us get married. But we need to come to a decision about the wedding before we talk to him.
We are both catholic and come from very large families who are also catholic. Our issue is that most people we are related to will take communion. The only people who wont would be friends and a few cousins partners. So having a ful nuptial mass seems logical. Except this will be a large wedding and I really don't want the communion bit to take up more of the wedding than the actual wedding bit and don't want to make the other guests feel awkward but without it the other set of guests would be very put out.
We are both torn between asking for the full mass and not.
Any help?