Hey all,
My boyfriend (aka the world's worst secret keeper) is *this close* to proposing. The other night he mentioned the possibility of him giving me his mother's engagement ring when he proposes. He did say he would have no problem getting me my own ring if that's what I wanted, but it would mean a lot to his family if I were to accept his mother's.
Of course, I am touched his mother would even offer me her ring. BUT there is a very small part of me that might kind of maybe still want my own ring, mostly on the basis that I'd just rather think of my boyfriend when I look at my ring rather than his mother. Also, I kind of stammerred my agreement to his suggestion (not that I had much of a choice after the speech he gave!) without even finding out what her ring looks like!
I do care more about what the ring stands for than the ring itself, and my boyfriend's parents have been head-over-heels in love for their entire 30+ marraige, so I do appreciate that. Should I just squelch the tiny girly part of me that has a little reservation about this? I need some advice!