My boyfriend and I will have been dating for two years in October and he graduates college in December. We've talked about marriage and know that we want to marry eachother, and he even said in the last month that he'll give me a ring when he graduates and we'll be married by next October. I love weddings and want to be a wedding planner, so I'm always on blogs and Pinterest boards, yet when he sees these or hears me talk about weddings, he acts like it's too soon to be looking. I'm worried he won't find a job right out of school and I won't get a ring until April or something, and that means an even shorter amount of time to plan a wedding, so I'm just looking around for what I like now. I want a fall wedding, and a short engagement doesn't bother me (it's been 2 years and I know he's the one...also my family has old-fashioned beliefs that we won't live together, etc beforehand, and a long engagement makes it that much harder). Do I curb my love for wedding websites, etc. or is he being sensitive and thinks I'm being pushy? I already know we're getting married and I don't do wedding researching as a reminder to him or an ultimatum or anything, just to be one step ahead of the game in a soon-to-be short engagement. Help!