The pastor who is marrying us has given us some homework: find and fill out both health proxies (he makes medical decisions for me if I am unable to) and living wills. We don't want to hire a lawyer for any of this because we're trying to save money.
-Has anyone had to fill these out?
-Where to obtain them? I've found a number of different versions of each online
-What to do with them once we've filled them out? Do we keep them? Give them to a random lawyer? Put them in some sort of bank safe?
- For the living wills - what if we don't have anything of substance (house, money, etc.) to will away? We both just graduated from college and are renting an apartment.