Sorry this is so long!
So...FI and I haven't picked a venue yet and we're trying to get married next May (ish). We've looked at about 4 places but it's hard for me to get out and look at stuff because of my work schedule..we basically only have Saturdays and those get busy with other stuff sometimes. Anyways..we've had a death in the family last week so we've been emotional and I'm exhausted so maybe I'm just really on edge right now but this kinda annoyed me. Please tell me if I'm over reacting, I can take it!
What happened: I sent an e-mail to the coordinator at one of the sites we looked at asking a very basic question that could have easily been answered in a quick response, it was about whether we would be allowed to book a certain indoor venue with our outdoor one (they require that you book both..). Anyways..this was well over a week ago and I never heard from her. I've been out of wedding planning mode for about a week because of previously mentioned death, so I send her another e-mail this morning to follow up since I hadn't heard back. I was perfectly nice and even took the blame saying "I might have deleted your email on accident" to give her an out. Anyways..she emails me back kinda snarky and says I should call her so we can discuss the situation in real time and work out all the details, etc etc. Still doesn't answer my question and it is now obvious that she purposefully ignored my first email. I can understand the needing to talk real time if I was already booked there and needing to work out details/had a lot of questions/etc. But...I have even commited to this place and just had a simple question and it is much easy for me to just shoot and email than spend 20 minutes on the phone with this woman..which I can't do when I'm at work anyway. And I can't call them after work or on Saturday because they aren't in the office. Shouldn't she be a little more considerate of me as a potential client? Or am I over reacting? It's really turning me off this place which is a shame because it's pretty. but my heart's not set on it either.
Thoughts?