I've been told a very long time ago (before I got engage, 10 years prior to meeting m husband now), that "weddings can make or break a friendship!"
My best friend of 20 years (since we were 7), was a NO SHOW!!!
Prior to the wedding (2 months), My Fiance (now husband) and I, moved to KY. So, all wedding arrangements needed to be done long distance (VA). It was hard to get my maid of honor to be on the same page and help me with things without being called a bridezilla! So, I gave up on asking her for help and relied on my sisters (matron of honor and bridesmaid) for anything that needed to be followed up on. (Did I mention, for 2 months she does not call me to ask how I was doing, how my soon to be husband is, and our conversations (when I called) were always short!)
Finally, It was the weekend of my bachelorette party (weekend before the wedding), I had to plan my own party! She did not communicate with any of my guests or bridesmaids as to what was the game plan. We did have an original game plan, but she changed her mind because "she" did not like the location.
Later that night, she had posted on facebook, "waiting for this week to pass, so I can cut things off." I know this was referring to me so, to retaliate to it, I clicked on the liked button and comment "me too." Guess what she does after that, she deletes and blocks me from her facebook friend! I tried calling her that night four times and she declined all of my calls. I then text her and said "If your post was referring to me, wait no longer. You ended our friendship when you deleted me!"
The next day, she text message me and said "sorry things had to come to an end like this. We may never be friends again, but can we keep this from my family and yours, so I don't get questions. And honestly, I plan to still come to your wedding only as a guest and be seated with my famiyl." Can you believe this girl. I decided not to respond to her text. I was thinking maybe she would realize how long we have been friends for, for something like this to come between our friendship! I was hoping that she would call or show up and make that move to show me that she values our friendship and wants to continue being friends!
She did not show for the wedding ceremony!
To make things worst, she comes to the reception, walks through my receiving line and did not greet me nor my husband (unbelievable)! Throughout the whole night, I can see that she was trying to provoke me by flirting with my step son and brother in law! She stayed til the very end of the night, when it was me, my husband, and the remaining 5 guest exiting the door.
Her and I, will NEVER be friends agian! I do wish that she can find happiness in her life, so she can be happy for others!