Hi all!
Not sure if I should post this here, but I was wondering about how your partners are handling the wedding planning process?
Originally, I was under the impression that FIs weren't particularly interested in wedding planning. My partner said "it's all up to you", so I didn't really think he wanted to be involved.
When we gave our notice to marry, we were shown all of the available rooms in the council house - and he seemed really excited. He memorized all the names of the rooms and was very gung-ho about one in particular. He even started throwing around ideas about what colour suit he should wear (after previously pleading with me to let him wear jeans haha).
So, how involved are your FIs when it comes to wedding planning? Are they enjoying it? Do they have strong opinions? Or are they leaving the decision-making up to you?