1. Yesterday, my mom got an invitation to my bridal shower that my FMIL is hosting. It was supposed to be a surprise, but FI told me about to make sure I would be able to get off work. So it isn't a surprise anymore, which is fine, but what IS a surprise is that the invitation says the shower is ay MY house. Not at FMILs or anywhere else, MINE. I'm a little ticked because not only is the shower on a Wednesday night (my wedding is that Saturday), it's at MY house. I wouldn't want people coming over, cooking, decorating, doing whatever in my house, without me knowing about it (which I wouldn't have except FI told me). So I'm glad it isn't a surprise, but now I feel like I have to be involved in it. There is cleaning, and cooking, and setting up to do, and I feel like I have to do it since it's in my home. Ugh. I know it was meant to be a nice thing for me, but I'd rather skip out on having the big party at my house 2 days before the wedding...maybe I over react?Again, these 2 random complaints have nothing to do with eachother.2. Since me and FI bought our house a couple months back, my mom seems to think she gets to make the decorating decisions and choose how to arrange my furniture and in what rooms. When I try to tell her we don't want to do something a particular way, she throws a fit like a child. *sigh*