Planning again..

cpb8103

Hi girls!!! I should be excited I truly have meet the guys of my dreams and he treats me like a queen but keeps me in line too. Anyways he proposed and of course I said yes! The problem is I have been married once and planned a wedding and reception that my ex husband decided was a bad idea and so we got married and court house and my step mom planned an open house reception for us a month later. Then I got engaged again and planned my dream wedding until one month before the wedding I walked in to house and found my husband to be in the shower with another woman. Then I got engage to my high school sweet heart and we were planning a wedding together and things just didn't work out. Now I am trying to plan a wedding again this time with the man of my dreams and the only guy my parents and family have really liked and I just don't have the energy to do. Which is sad consider I am a craft nut and love DIY projects like this. I need help to get into the planning and wedding mood. Any one have any ideas???

Stackeye210

One day, one vendor at a time.  Eventually the wedding bug will begin to bite you again.

dsouldiva

Hire a wedding planner!  Tell them you are up for the DIY projects and let them deal with everything else, keep it simple and don't have a long engagement ; )GL xI hope this time you will have the wedding of your dreams

jeannigirl

Is their underlying issue caused by the previous expereinces that you've had. Those can totally affect what you are feeling now, even though you finally found that special man. Think of the old saying you have to kiss alot of toads before you meet the handsome prince. ( alittle laughter for you) Seriously just give it a little time and it will happen. Just look at other people wedding boards. That excitment will happen. Just think of what you have experienced and look where you are now with your FI.

bingham101

Elope. Take 10-20 close people with you and go somewhere nice and get married on the beach or on a mountain or anything. I wouldnt want to think about all the bad stuff everytime I started to work on planning. I am not trying to sound mean or anything I just personaly wouldnt want to think about how the other engagements ended while going through all the same processes again... if you live in a small area your probably going to come accross the same vendors.

cpb8103

Thanks for all your comments and thank goodness I am not in the same area as my other engagements. I have moved to a different state to be with my FI and I am sure the wedding planning blues with pass in time soon I hope. We have thought about the eloping and I really like that idea we will see what happens. Once again thanks for all your help!!!!

jfgrad06

Not to sound rude, but you're 28 years old, divorced once, and have been engaged three other times since then? The only thing that comes to mind is telling you to slow down with your relationships. It sounds like you've had a couple of misfortunes, and I sympathize with you there, but there's nothing wrong with being together for a while before you jump the gun into an engagement and wedding. Aside from that, if you're determined to get married this time, JOP, elope, or hire a wedding planner as PPs have said.