Kinda sad...

stressfreeBride2be

So FI and I are getting married in about a month, and he's actually coming over to my apartment tonight to start helping me move some stuff out.  And I can't help but feel a little bummed....  I'm super excited to get married, but it's kind of sad to me to be moving out of my apartment and realizing all the changes that are about to happen:(  Maybe it's just because it's close to 'that time of the month,' but did anyone else feel like this???

kitcat018

Oh hunny, it will be ok. I felt that way when my boyfriend, FI now moved in with me. I felt like it was never going to the same way ever again. I was so excited for him to move in and start our life together but I felt like sad or confessed at the time. You will be ok, I promise and good luck.

bingham101

FI and I just moved out of our apartment and I felt sad because it was the first place I have lived out on my own. Maybe that is where these feelings are coming from and I would say they are very normal.

laimabean

I would definitly chalk that one up to tom. I get sad about everything when he comes around, of coarse moving out of anyplace, even the crappiest apt I lived in was kinda sad in a way for me. Moving can be very emotional. You'll feel much better when you're all settled in your new place.

stressfreeBride2be

Thanks, ladies:)  Yes, this is my first apartment, so it holds some sentimental value.  When I told FI I was feeling kind of down about, he's reply was "I'm excited to get married because we're going to have a ball..."  LOL..typical:)

ellenb09

I just moved in with my fiance last month and even though we spent all our time together, it was a little sad to move out of my apt.  I have been on my own for 10 years and it has been a little bit of an adjustment to not having my own space, but I am so excited to be marrying the man of my dreams, that it outweighs any sadness I had:)

e_jakiela

My FI and I were in a long distance relationship (850 miles away) for most of our dating. I could not wait for him to move in with me, which he did about 7 months ago. Since he moved in, our relationship grew even more amazing and I love every day when I come back home and he is here. Now we are planning to move out of my apartment and I already feel a little uneasy, but also excited. We are really hoping for a nice upgrade (read: moving from city to the burbs) so I cannot wait to see that. I know what you feel though... I expect myself to be a little down, I have lived in this apartment since I moved to the US in 2002... a lot of memories are here.

kaynix21

Awww! It'll be OK. I sort of feel like that sometimes too. I am excited and ready to be married and be a wife. But it's kind of a hard one when you're in your early 20's and realize you really, and totally have to be the "adult." FI and I have been living together for over three years now, for the most part. And that's all fine and dandy, but when he leaves for training, I'm moving with him across the country and away from my family which sucks. And I'm going to be bummed. I just tell myself it's a new and exciting adventure, and I get to experience it with him so it's more than worth it. It's totally OK to be a little bummed about moving for some place that was specially to you.