My FI came home last night and wanted to try his tux on for me.. I really didn't want to see it till sat but he insisted. So he came out with it on but no tie or vest and shirt unbuttoned. I wasnt to thrilled with it. He picked one that had a longer than normal jacket. THat part looked fine it was the shoulder part that looked way to big and then came into his skinny waste. He looked like a upside down triangle. When he unbuttoned it it looked much better. I had already hurt his feelings and to make it worse he tells me to reach into his pocket and there was a pair of diamond hoop earrings. So I felt like a biatch.
Fast forward to this morning. My mother pretty much tells me I have to wear them at the wedding. That it would be very rude of me not too. My dress has pearls on it. So i bought and spent a lot of money on pearls to go with it. I was told too bad your wearing the ones he got you.. She said diamonds go with everything and I will just have to go buy jewelry that matches my earrings.. Which I cannot afford and don't have time to do.
Do you think its rude of me to not wear them on my wedding day ? or Do you think he will even notice or care?