A guy I have been best friends with since high school has recently gotten married. He and I fooled around a few years go but not while he was with his now wife. We continued to be best of friends and he has not cheated on his wife and I trust when he tells me he hasn't.
Long story short, he got married and is currently on his honeymoon. He has been IM/texting me since he arrived other then the few days they spent on their cruise. It just really irritates me and I do tell him, that he needs to put his phone away and spend time with her and enjoy it. He continues to text me while I'm online so it goes to my IM. I thought about blocking him but he would notice because if I sign off it goes to my phone anyway.
Lately the chats haven't been exactly friendly, they been too friendly for a now married man. I care about him a lot and I know things no one knows but him and the other person that it involves.
Last night he told me more about a secret he has had since he was a child and it now has to do with him being a grown man. I was in shock when he told me but the thing is he was honest and told me the truth. Sometimes I think he might be just BSing the entire "secret" but at the same time I don't think anyone would ever do such a thing. It's immorally wrong, but not life threatening, or psychically hurtful to anyone. It's more very emotionally hurtful and mentally.
I just don't know how to react to it. It absolutely disgusts me and I'm in complete shock over it. He asked me if I'm ok about it and yea I am but as much as I don't really want anything to do with him, I don't want to loose our friendship neither.
I know a lot of you would say me telling what the secret is would change opinions but I just can't share. So, advice given without knowing the exact details, it'd be greatly appreciated. I guess what I'm looking for is a "what would you do" type thing. Would you continue being friends because it's not hurtful toward you. Or back off because you can't stand the fact that it happened.
Thanks!