So about a month ago my sister in law, who happens to be my best friend since we were 10, tells me she's going to throw a huge B-day party for her daughter and she wants my FI to fly up to come for it (he's in the air force). She so excited for him to do they family stuff with us, and she says its the prefect time for him to meet the extended family he hasn't meet yet. It's a $600 plane ticket but we had the money and my FI really wanted to come so all is well. Then she changes the date (still during when my FI planned to be there so we say no prob) come to find out its on day that my mom's side can't come to b/c of a christening. Ok that sucks but FI can still meet the dad's side and play with our niece so we try to look past it.
Well yesterday was my grandma's 85 birthday so we had a big family party. It was the first time I'd seen most of my Dad's side since the engagement so there was lots of talk about it. Everyone asked when they were going to get to meet him and I tell them at my nieces B-day party, everyone's excited and happy. Then my brother and SIL show up and we're talking and she mentions that she's no long inviting any of them b/c the party got to big...
Wait you tell us to buy a $600 plane ticket so my FI could feel apart of the family for your daughters BIG party and then make it so mom's side can't come and don't invite my dad's side. So he's what, going to meet your friends and family... gee thanks! And thanks for letting me know you changed your mind before I talked to everyone and told them, we spent the first half of the day together, you didn't think to mention this before!
I didn't say anything to her b/c its her kid, her choice, but it really ticked me off... I feel like a bitch for getting this upset about it, but I can't help it.
