My grandma passed away a few years ago and my aunts followed her wishes and turned her wedding dress into small lap pillows for all the girls in the family, and I want to incorporate it in the wedding as the ring bearer pillow, but the thing is I really want to actually put the rings on the pillow when he walks, keep in mind he's only 5 1/2 granted he's pretty smart for a 5 year old but you never know. My MOH thinks its a dumb idea cause the rings could fall off and all that, but it's really important to me, I feel if I put the fake rings on there would be no point of using the pillow.
What should I do?