Ok girls...I am wondering if you can swing some ideas to me. I am adopted child who lost my adopted dad when I was nine. My real dad is living but there is no way I would want him to give me away. My adopted mom remarried and I love him in all I just dont want him to give me away. My fiancee is a E-3 in the Marine Corps. so I am trying to stay traditional. Is it a bad idea for me to be given away by my brother? I would also like ideas on wedding dresses. I am a plus size girl and like strappless dresses, yet i would like to put some red on it somewhere. I am doing this solo due to the fact he wants my day just the way I want it. His only request is that I use red, blue, and black as colors. Since red is his color the bridesmaids dresses will be red. Any more cute sugestions would be amazing

USMC
Re: help needed
It's nice that your FI wants the wedding to be just how you want it, but if you ever need planning help, don't forget that it's his wedding too, and he can't just leave you high and dry! I get it though, my FI pretty much said that he wanted to help if I needed it, but his dream for his wedding is that it's my perfect day.
What specifically are you looking for suggestions for?
As for a wedding gift for him, base it off what he likes. A watch or maybe a hand made pen? Just throwing out sentimentalish gifts. I don't know him though, so no ideas of mine will be better than yours!
When is your date?