Hi everyone, just wanted some advice. I have been with my fiance for about 6 months, just got engaged. The thing is he has 3 kids. I have met all of them and they like me well enough (his oldest has given his permission for the wedding) but I'm still concerned and nervous about becoming "step-mom". To be honest before meeting him I had no plans on even having kids. I love his boys but suddenly having 3 boys ranging from 3 to 10 is a little disconcerting. Any advice on this matter would be appreciated!!!