i have noticed that reciently some brides love tearing other brides to shreds. is this right? i dont think so. this makes me very upset and i have lost my temper but for any of you who know what post im talking about im sorry for my language but not for my opinion. we are supposed to be a community of LADIES who are going through this process together. but instead we decide to be mean and hateful to people who just want our support. have you guys seen any of this? its not right to hate a bride because she has a specific vision of what her wedding day is supposed to be like is it? if it is lock me up and throw me in jail please.