Here is a little back story before I start.... My fiance's best friend had been dating a girl for 5 years. The four of us became very close and I consider her to be one of my best friends. So naturally when I got engaged I asked her to be a bridesmaid. Her boyfriend is our best man. Shortly after we got engaged he finally popped the question to her. She said yes and started planning just like I was. Everything was happy and fun. We were all in each other's wedding and looking forward to everything. A few months into their engagement she got cold feet and called off the wedding and broke his heart. I stayed by her side and supported her. Fast forward a few weeks later she wants him back. He is hurt and enjoying single life.
For the past 3 months I have been listening to her complain about why he won't take her back. And how much she hates him but also loves him. Today she asked me to call him and see if he would meet her to talk so that she could get closure. I did. He didn't answer. I let her know this and she is upset which I understand. We are ordering the bridemaids dresses tomorrow.
She just text me expressing how she can't be a bridesmaid because it will be too hard for her to be around him. And how she hopes this doesn't ruin the wedding. I'm so hurt that someone I thought was a friend would hurt me in this way especially after listening and supporting her for so long. I'm trying not to be selfish and say she is ruining my wedding because I know she is in pain, but she brought it on herself and now all she is doing is hurting someone who has been nothing but good to her!!!!
Thank you for letting me vent, I know our wedding will be beautiful and everything will be perfect because at the end of the day I'm marrying my best friend.