JFYI - Before making too many deposits that are not refundable!!!!!!! #1- Do not put an announcement in the paper for your upcoming wedding! I will make sure that editor, Gary Jones, refuses to place it the paper. #2 - Do not come here for Easter Sunday and play Tuba! I do not want to explain why church members are not invited to the reception. I do not need to tell Mary Ellen that she can not come to the wedding and reception because ya'll put it on the web with an RSVP without thinking. #3 - I do not need to explain that money is not an object that they are just not wanted to be there and celebrate the wedding of someone that have supported since they were seven years old. i do not need to explain why Scott was included in their children's wedding but they are not included. 3A - i offered to pay for their dinner plate but it was rejected. Since money is no object - Maybe ya'll should pay the bar bill. After all - it's your wedding and money is no object!!! Or maybe the truth is not out. #3 - I do not need any further embarrassment - I thought I raised someone that loved God and church family. #4 - Erica wants the building because it has a single aisle. Not that it is the church she grew up in and loved the family members. Also - Gwinnett county is too expensive. You only went through conseling to save money and was required by Pastor Phil #5 - Pastor Phil is also surprised. maybe ya'll will elope or find a new location!!! I'm wearing black for the wedding. I already have something that will match Travis's black suit and that is obviously fitted for the inevitable. I am an unhappy mother - This is not going to change. As Scott said - "Ya'll have already made one concession about kids and not going to make anymore." My answer back - "Live with yourself " That's all you have left!! Good luck for a happy long lasting marriage!!! Susie
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do not send any more e-mails! Will go to Savannah tomorrow and probably do not need to hear any more correspondance until after Sunday. And probably not for a long time! I hope you, Scott, and Grandmother Dot have an idea of the humiliation you have caused me in my small community! But listening how your maid and matron's of honor are treating you - You are just too young. When you get to 60 - you will know who will be your friends. Family will always be there for you. I know family and I know my church family and I know my 3 best friends that have stood beside me for 55 plus years. I had 4 but Gail died two years ago. How many of your friends will be your best in 30 years???? I'm thinking some of your wedding party will be gone in a year.
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Y'all...I have never been spoken to like this...not in a very long time since I left my verbally abusive stepmom and my dad's home....I am crying like a baby.
April Siggy Challenge-Wedding Escape: Reading HG/dreaming about Peeta....
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