I have 3 older brothers. My fiance is not close with any of them. He has four friends that he is very close with, and I have four friends as well. It works perfectly. However, the other evening we brought up the wedding in front of one of my brothers, and he became upset that he was not a groomsman. He assumed that he was, and when I informed him he was not problems started. I don't have a problem with my brother being in the wedding, but if one of them is then all three would need to be. As I said, my fiance is close to his four friends and not my brothers. He won't leave his friends out (and I don't think he should have to) and if we add my 3 brothers he would have 7 groomsman. Quite frankly, I don't have that many girl friends! I really only have 1 close friend and one is my fiances sister. The other two are in different ways tied to my family even tho I am not close to them. Just finding four bridesmaids was hard enough. Now I might have to find seven! I'm not sure what to do. Not only is this stressing ME out but my fiance is at a loss. He likes my brothers and wants to keep them happy, but he also doesn't want to leave his friends (who are like brothers to him) out of the wedding. Any advice anyone?