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Just looking for other happy brides to be.

Hello everyone...
(this may start off like Im sad... but Im just explain myself first lol)
Well I decided to write on here because I have been having a TERRIBLE time trying to pretend I know what I am doing to planning my wedding. I have people coming out of the wood works in my family saying they want to help... but well I dont know what to have them do... let alone what else I am supossed to do. My mother passed away in june, and I dont have her to talk too. My MOH is well... self obsorbed and Ive just learned to deal with it. Im the youngest sister of 4, as well as having a sister 10 years younger. I was going to be the first to get married, until a few weeks ago one of my older sisters informed me she will be having a shotgun wedding in march.
They all aren't the happiest with their life decission, so it makes it hard to be the one saying how great everything is.
So as for the excitement level I really dont feel like anyone gets it. Kinda feels like most people are trying as hard as they are because my moms gone.
I was kinda hoping for some excited brides to be to share with... weather exsitement or frustrarion! But Im thinking there might be someone else out there that needs an excitment buddy too.
I hope everyone is have a wonderful new year!Kiss

Re: Just looking for other happy brides to be.

  • I'm sorry for the loss of your mom.  It must be very hard going through the planning without her.  Check out your local board to connect with brides in your area.  They'll be able to help you find affordable and reliable vendors.  As far as planning, theknot has a checklist and budgeter to get you started and guide you in your planning.  I actually prefer the tools on www.weddingwire.com

    Finally, I want to remind you that you are still 9 months away from your wedding.  No one will be as excited about your wedding as you are.  To you, it's ONLY 9 months away...  to everyone else it's 3/4 of a year out.  People will get more excited as it gets closer     
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  • I just got engaged on Christmas and I understand how you feel. I am completely overwhelmed with this whole process of planning a wedding. Everytime I think I have made a decision someone dislikes what I've picked. Take time to just enjoy the fact that you are getting married to an amazing man. :) Good Luck.
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