History: Since my fiance and I started dating my parents seemed to like him. Now that we are engaged they have been different. I haven't lived at home since I was 17. So it's not them giving up there little girl or anything.
We did out home work on where we wanted our reception. Not asking for help form my parents or his. His offered help. We booked and paid the retail for the hall to hold our place. After that my mom has been having a fit about the hall. She then took it upon her self to look into another place that is by far more money. Then we said we would go look at a wedding at each place. That wasn't good enough. They now said they would pay if we have it where they want it. But we would still be paying about the same if we pay the whole thing where we want it vs. where they want it. My fiance is had it up to his ears with her and her wants. (That aren't mine nor his style). Now I am not even happy about planning and ready to call it off. I have told her this and she sugar coats everything and said it would be a good idea. YIKES! This is only the beginning she has tried it with everything so far.
I have tried the "you aren't being productive" approach and she still is not getting it. I have told her she is being to pushy, "you have planned you own 2 weddings. Let me plan mine" thing too and still I'm not getting anywhere. Can someone give me advice so I don't call off the wedding or put a big wedge between her and I.
Thanks so much for your help in advance!
Jen