Well I am upset!
Over a year trying to get him to help pick out the personal things he has just not been part of. He didn't even know what songs we were dancing to till last night and didn't even listen to them. He then said he would pick out his mom and son song and spent hours trying to find the right one.
How can I dance our first dance with him knowing it means nothing to him he don’t even know the words, why, or bother to listen to it, help pick it out, and zero involvement or care about it for that matter than watch him dance with his mother and it be meaningful to him? I just feel like it makes the reception about him and is mom and not about us? I know it’s weird but I just don’t see me dancing with him and having zero connection to the dance and son then watch him dance with is mom and it be the only dance that has meaning to my new husband when the wedding is suppose to meaningful to us all. I think he should at least have spent equal time caring about both ours and his mother’s song. Now it just seems meaningless to bother dancing a first dance when it means so little to him? I think I am just freaking out. Would that bug you any?