How do I figure this out?;;
This was my original list;
J -maid of honor, best friend of 14 years
Z -bridesmaid, sister in law
L -bridesmaid, sister in law
A -bridesmaid, sister
K -bridesmaid, best friend
R -bridesmaid, best friend
M -best man, best friend
W -groomsmen, brother
R -groomsmen, brother
D -groomsmen, brother in law (my brother)
S- groomsmen, sister in laws husband (my brother in law)
D & R -groomsmen, nephews
Now my list kind of looks like this
J -maid of honor, barely even speak, irresponsible
Z -bridesmaid, probably can't get visa to come to USA for wedding
L -bridesmaid, sister in law (the only normal one in the party)
A -bridesmaid, sister, controlling, annoying me, difficult, bad relationship
K -bridesmaid, havent seen, doesnt talk, texts when needs $, flirts with everyone
R -bridesmaid, jealous of MOH, doesnt call or text, havent seen
M -best man, loyal, kind, excited
W -groomsmen, doesnt like bride
bride doesnt like him (but I understand his need to be in the wedding for my fiance)
R -groomsmen, quiet, excited
D -groomsmen, wants to walk bride down aisle
S -groomsmen, now divorced from sister in law (my sister), rude, not even close with the groom anymore
D & R -groomsmen, quiet, young
Now, my whole point of this is to see, if this was your wedding, and this is all the notes you had on the wedding party and just from that had to decide where people would go, who would be in the wedding, who to cut all together, who would you choose?! Where would you put them?
I hope thats enough information to get an answer..
I am so stuck.. I am okay with keeping or getting rid of anyone in this wedding party even if it means there are more girls than guys or more guys than girls..
So with what I gave you above, who would you keep, where would you put them, who would you get rid of completely?