I live in southern NH and to cut costs for the rehearsal dinner my Fiance and I are using the clubhouse that is owned by his mom's townhouse association. But now that I am looking into ideas on what to do for food it seems it might be just as much to go out to a restaurant. We wanted something a little more relaxed. My wedding is in November so bbq food might be difficult. Any ideas on what we could do to cut back on costs? I'm trying to avoid just ordering pizza...lol!