So, I'd thought I'd share my story and maybe get some advice. My boyfriend and I have know each other since Jan of '10. We never really talked or hung out until 8 months ago. We have only been dating for 6 months. A couple months in we knew we were meant to be and we knew that we wanted to marry each other but never really talked about it until we found out we were pregnant, which was two months after we started dating. That was a huge shock to both of us and our families. I am only 19 and he is 23. Both of our families have been pressuring us to get married. He bought me a promise ring about 3 months ago and asked me to start planning the wedding and he'd propose soon. So, I'm 18 weeks pregnant, have been dating my bf for six months, 19 and getting married. Kind of a shock. Today we went out and bought an engagement ring. It's beautiful! But he said he's going to plan and surprise proposal. Since I am pregnant I have no idea what to do aobut engagment pictures or if I should schedule dress appointments yet or what. I'm so lost with everything! Any guidance would be great. And I have no idea what to do for wedding colors! We want to have an outdoor wedding in my parents backyard. It's a huge, beautiful yard. We're out in Iowa and having it September 1st. We kind of want to have a vintage feel to the wedding but not too much. Like I said, I'm so lost and have no idea where to start or what to do.