Our wedding is exactly 13 months from today but from the way I feel, you'd think it was 13 days away. My honey proposed to me on April 3 and on April 12 he was back on an airplane headed back overseas and he won't be home until the end of August. I've started some planning, mostly just searching for things I like, but I know that I need to start booking a ceremony and reception site as those tend to fill up 12 months in advance. My honey is making me feel like I don't involve him in a lot of the planning but it's so hard with him being 8000 miles away and our only source of communication is FB chat when his internet is working. He really hurt my feelings when he told me that today (via FB) because I want this to be our wedding and I would love to plan it together once he's home but some things can't wait.
We've kind of, sort of picked out a ceremony location but it's outside... in Northern Michigan.. at the end of May (the weather may not be in our favor!!). The place doesn't have a Plan B so if mother nature decides to suck that day, we're SOL which is making me second guess our choice. The location is so beautiful overlooking lake michigan on a nature perserve but is that worth risking the rain?! I just can't decide!! I'm worried that we go with the location and the weather sucks but then if we move to an indoor location and the weather is amazing, I'm going to be so super bummed! And this is only for the ceremony site, lord help me when it comes to where to have the reception!!!!
I just need someone to talk to off the ledge and make me put down the box of thin mints! I think my firiends are weddinged-out for a bit and I could use various opinions from all over!!