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baby brains

so i went to visit my cousins this weekend, one has an adorable two year old and the other is pregnant! (we actually went there for her baby shower) now i am in no way ready or seriously thinking of having a child right now, but they were so adoarble i just cant wait to get married and finish school and start having babies! my fiance and i decided once he comes back from his deployment and i finish law school (same year he will finally be finishing his undergrad) then were going to see what kind of shape were in to have children. I keep thinking about it and getting so excited and wanting time to hurry up though!! I know i should be enjoying what we have now and everything changes once your married and then changes again once you have children, i just have silly visions of a little girl with his hair and my eyes running around. le sigh

Re: baby brains

  • Awww, seeing little ones does that to me too. Good luck with school!
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  • I get that way too! Just about everyone around me between the ages of 18 and 30 is having a baby, and my Facebook feed is full of college friends who are pregnant or just had babies. H and I just have too much going on right now to have a child, but still. Hopefully in a year or so. 
  • I'm probably the only person who is able to cure any longing for a baby by spending time with her niece and nephew.  I am absolutely exhausted after a few hours and praying that any diaper change is wet and not muddy.  Being an aunt is the best.
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  • I can't tell you how much I love my kiddos (3 of them, 17, 11, and 8).  That being said being the mom to an infant is very challenging and at times very yucky.  I could regale you with stories that would drive you to the bathroom to take a very long shower.  I

    t's great that you know at some point you want kiddos, and you know you should wait, etc, etc.  You are a very wise lady and will make a great mom.  Basically what I'm saying is if you get baby fever again (been there more than I thought I ever would) ask to babysit for a few hours.  That always worked to cure my baby fever right away.  Lol
  • sometimes i feel like taking care of my 3 month puppy and my a year and half old dog is overwhelming enough!!!
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