So my brother hasn't been a part of my family for years for many reasons. We have all tried to get him and my father to reconcile for a while because they haven't spoken for almost 11 years due to thing that happened when I was younger. When I turned 18 my brother and I finally formed a good relationship but I still didn't feel as though he was being the big brother he was suppose to be. We occasionally saw eachother but would go months without talking. Well he got married last August and my now sil asked me to be a brides maid. I couldn't have been more happy because we ( my brother sil and myself) has time to bond and finally have a really good relationship. Shortly after they got married they started having problems so I would get a phone call everyother night from my sil saying how she wanted out of the marriage and did know why she even married him to begin with. I told her honestly idk why she married him either but it was her life and her decision. (I know it's horrible to talk about my brother that way but if you knew him you would understand.) Anyway, my sil and I had gotten very close and would tell eachother anything. Well there had been somethings that my brother had done when we were little that started to but me. The issue was never addressed and I just put it in that little box of crap in my mind. Well in July I told her about what happened and everything went down hill from there. She told my brother about the conversation her and I had and my brother freaked out and said that it didn't happen that way. So this whole situation turns into a big family fight. After everything was "straightened" out my brother told me hat I was dead to him and he never wanted to hear from me again. Made no difference to me because after everything he couldn't take responsibility for what he did so I had bitter feelings toward him. So fast oreads to about three weeks ago. My brother is a type one diabetic and has to take insulin several times a day. Well he had forgotten he had taken his insulin for the night and retook it. By doing this caused his blood sugar to drop extremely low and he almost died. From what I hear he had an out of body experience. It was so bad that the paramedics told his wife to leave the room while they worked on him. Anyway my parents call me two days later to inform me of what happened. Of course I was extremely upset and immediately I send his wife an email because I don't have there number. She never relayed the message to him that I wanted to talk to him so I get the number from my mom and call him. He wants nihing to do with me still and didn't have anything to say to me. fine whatever he wants to ac childish so be it but I was the bigger person and apologized for what happened. Over the past year my father and I have gotten extremely close and I have become daddy's little girl again. Well ever since my brother almost died my dad had nearly spoken to me and he alms to my brother almost everyday. Mind you they haven't talked in over ten years. My parents have gone to see my brother several times and not once has anyone invited me. I guess this is just jealousy speaking because I have been the center of my parents world for so long and now I feel completely left out of the family get togethers. I know I probably sound a little childish with this but I'm a little hurt by it.
I'm sorry if this doesnt make much since, I'm just saying what I'm thinking at the moment.