Confessions Wednesday!!!

Mrs Babs

Lets here em ladies... ...Remember there is NO judgement...

Mrs Babs

I confess that I am so sick of living with people. I just want to be living alone with FI and no one else. I'm tired of people always asking us if they can stay with us for awhile. Grrr are we the only ones with our feet on the ground? I can't wait until next year when we will try to buy a house and finally be on our own again. I further confess that I'm really nervous to buy a house next year in this economy. I have no idea if we will get approved and I have no idea how to begin.

spainerk

I confess that I am really nervous for our engagement photo session on Sunday.  I am really bad at fake smiling and FI and I are not the "lovey-dovey" type of couple.  I hope that we at least get a few good shots! I confess that I am bored at work and I HATE being bored.  Booooo.

ddumire

I confess that I'm afraid to try on my wedding dress when I go to pick it up today.  I ordered it a size smaller than I needed as motivation to lose weight (yeah, I know).  I've only lost three pounds, but I didn't expect it to come in three weeks.  I was hoping it would come this fall and when I tried it on, it would be loose!

Gabs71109

I confess that I am way more nervous about changing my last name than I ever thought I would be. I was going to keep my middle name and add my maiden name as a second middle name but now I think I am just going to get rid of my maiden name which feels so weird to me.Additionally, I am NOT a fan of cursive Bs and my current signature is REALLY cool. I will be bummed to have to change it.

Mysticstarz33

I confess that although I love my children dearly I really need a break from them. FI and I NEED a weekend away with no children and NO FFIL especially

Starfish724

I confess that I wish I was getting married this Friday instead of a year from this Friday. Having to wait another year is driving me NUTS!I confess that I am putting off buying a dress until I drop more weight, eventhough I would LOVE to buy it now.I further confess that I would rather be at home surfing the web for photos, organizing my wedding things and drinking tea than be here at work.  

Starfish724

Oh- and Gabs, my sister is using her maiden name as her new middle name. She couldn't stand to lose her maiden name, she said it felt too strange.

Gabs71109

I know a lot of girls that just get rid of their current middle name but I love my middle name. Ahhhhh, it's tough!

Starfish724

Haha, I can only imagine. I'm in the process of trying to convince my FI to take on my name and hyphen it with his. I don't want to lose my maiden name either! I vote for a double middle name. I actually think that's a really good idea.

FireDancer04

I confess I would rather be home working on my bio, gathering photos and ideas than here at work, detailing a window. Wedding stuff sounds much more interesting today.

FireDancer04

I also confess that my fi called me the future mrs. g last night, which almost freaked me out.

Pokes

I confess that hyph names BLOW! was a bad bad idea... and didnt even weaken the strangth of the murphy curse!Gabs... go with the double middle name!

maggiecroteau

I confess that I really do want a bachelorette party even though I've been saying for months that I don't want one. I confess that I am really afraid our music is going to suck and no one is going to have fun.  I hate having anxiety I am also going to add my last name as a second middle name although it really makes no sense at all.  But I do like the 4 initials thing. MLCG 

AmiG41209

I confess that I'm stressing about money and the guest list for the wedding... 

Luv2Cook27

I confess that as much as I love my grandmother, she is driving me totally insane and I almost regret agreeing to the idea of her paying for half my wedding dress.I further confess that as much as I like dress shopping, I am completely frustrated that I have not been able to find much that I like.  Bits and pieces of dresses, I need them all in one!! *sigh* The search continues...

Arez16

I confess that I am getting really worried about FI and I finding full times jobs! If we don't have them by October, I am going to cry. Second, I confess that while I love my Mom, I am tired of everything having to be the way SHE likes it for the wedding. (For the most part I have agreed with everything thus far) But its my reception, and if I want Chicken and Fish instead of Chicken/Beef Combo, saving $3,000. I will do that. Who cares if the meals have to be on the RSVPs. UGH Sorry mini rant haha Lastly, I confess I really hope that the RD position FI is interviewing for today pays well, and that he is offered it. It will be an awesome way to save money, and boost his confidence even if it doesn't pay well. and since everyone has been commenting on this... I am going to be changing my last name to his, and getting rid of mine. Although I don't like the sound of his as much, its missing a syllable haha

dls.1215

I confess I have been slacking on wedding planning for the summer months and really need to get my butt in gear. I confess I'm not going to miss my last name because it is so common I'm sick of having to give my birthday or some other identifying factor to determine which Danielle Last Name I am.

matchbox920

I confess that FMIL drives me insane! If I hear one more time "Oh you should do it this way" or "I like this better" or "Why are you doing that?" I don't know what I'll do...

chica7484

I confess I skipped the gym today because I'm still feeling the motion sickness from today's field trip. I also confess that FI is really pissing me off with his SIL's baby shower being the same day as our move-in. First we have to "respect" their day (um, duh) and we might not even move in on the 1st because of "family time." Now he doesn't want to do anything besides move in once I'm done at the baby shower because his brother "doesn't spend any time with the family when he's up in MA, and I have things to do after the shower, so they'll just have to deal." Gah. I wish his mom would get it together with what she wants to do after the shower. Can FI move in? Or are we doing family dinner or what!??!

amandasblum

I confess that today sucked at work and I had to stay late which in turn made me miss bootcamp! I also confess that after finding out last night the FI's grandma has some infectious disease thing I dont want to go back and visit her cause Im so grossed out, I do love her though lol. I confess that if FMIL talks about the "new great gandbaby" one more time I might punch her. We dont want anythiing to do with this child, we said that already. And lastly, Im so stoked for my brother to come home. I miss him so much and just chatting with him the other night makes me miss him more and more. I want next Friday to be here quick!!! oooh on more... I want my freakin dress to come in... I ordered it in January! Now they are telling me it wont be here till August. NOT COOL!

barbnsteve

I confess that I want to be back in Mexico.  The break from reality was wonderful and I think I may need to do that at least once a year (wishful thinking)...I further confess that I haven't worked out since before the wedding and need to get my butt back into gear.I also confess that I can't wait for the weekend.

Krystalynne21

I confess that I am none too happy with my family pushing their judgments and beliefs of who I will and will not be speaking to come wedding time.I confess that I am afraid no church will marry FI and I because we have a 3 yr old son (he'll be almost 5 on wedding day) even though we've been together 7.5 yrs.I confess that I really don't care what anyone thinks about what I want for my wedding, because its MY day and WE are paying for it. If that makes me a Bridezilla, I confess that everyone can just kiss my a$$That felt good

chayer227

I confess that I HATE my house!  $15K paid for repairs, $15K more to go.  I'm glad we've got so much planning done on the wedding, or we'd have to postpone it.  I have no idea how we're really going to make it work, or if it will effect post-wedding baby timing...   

karynjoel

I'm also sick of people living with us. Our roomate is totally inconsiderate. However it's money. I'm just so tired of it. Since we moved in together 4 years ago we have not gone a whole year without someone thinking they need to surf our guest room.

AmyLou09

I confess that I was overwhelmed with life before the wedding and I thought it was wedding stress and that I would feel better post wedding but somehow I still feel stressed and anxious all the time.  NOT a fan.  I'm working on it but jeez.I also confess that while starting to house hunt has been fun it makes me nervous to think about spending all that money at once YIKES.  I think I'm a nervous nelly today yeesh what a wiener! I confess that teenagers drive me crazy lately and I'm not looking forward to being on call this weekend. 

ericcaah

I confess that I'm totally worried about how we're going to afford this wedding. We're doing everything on a budget and doing a lot of items ourselves, but everything is starting to add up.I also confess that I just sometimes want to be alone. I don't want to have something to do every night after work. Sometimes, I just want to sit on the couch and not worry about laundry, cooking dinner, going to this appointment, meeting friends... sometimes I just want to do NOTHING - or something that just really makes me happy. I'm tired of always trying to make everyone else happy and forgetting about what makes me happy.

Alisha & Ryan

In the past week we've come home to 2 wedding presents waiting at our door, now I'm more excited to come home and find presents then I am with RSVPs. I can't help it, they were the first wedding presents we've gotten, lol

rco118

I confess that I've been holding out on how hard it is for me to "be the bride".  Why does everyone suddenly forget that you were a person before becoming "the bride"?  Enough.My shower and bachelorette are Saturday.  PLEASE don't let anyone give me inappropriate undergarments and items to open in front of other people.  I'm excited about the idea - (we're doing a wine tasting!) but I will be glad when it is over b/c it has been WAAAAAAAAAAAAAY more stressful and dramatic than it needed to be.  I feel TERRIBLE for my MOH who just ended her engagement.  It was definitely for the best (she agrees!), but I just feel bad.  I understand what's she's lost and I can't imagine.And last but not least, I'm doubling down on the middle names too.  I was my last name in college - can't part with it.  I just took a deep breath.  These things do help.  Now maybe I'll get some sleep.  Ditto on the no-sleeping, wedding crap every night lifestyle.  AmyLou, when you get past it, lessons may be required.Night, ladies!