Several months ago I sent a mass FB message to all family members so I could obtain adresses. This was a blanket message in no way mentioning the wedding. I got responses from almost everyone and some extra people. I sent out STD to those I truely want to come and some friends who I know will not be able to make it across country but mean a lot to me. One cousin actually moved closeby for school so I sent her one as well, she was living alone and is an adult. Since october she has moved back in with her aunt. I was unaware of this until last week when she emailed me her new address. I wouldnt have even realized she was living with the family until my mom brought up how now that Vicky is living with her aunt I now have to invite her aunt, the aunts husband and their two kids! WTF! not only that since the aunt is likethis with her 2 sisters i would have to invite them and their families as well.
Mom is now pissed that "I am being rude splitting up a family" but she isnt footing the bill, FI and I are. I did not plan an invite for one cousin and a guest to snowball into 11 more people being invited. Is it rude to invite just the cousin or am i obligated to invite all these people and their adult children. I did not budget for that many people and I cannot afford a whole other table for them. What should i do?
"All I want is for you to be happy And, take this woman and make you my family And, finally you have found someone perfect And, finally you have found Yourself."