I just need to vent, and my mom isn't really making it easy, and sometimes I feel like I'm being mean. But I hate dis-order and I feel like I'm making myself CLEAR to these ppl. SO I have out of town guest, one still hasn't confirmed and now he's telling me his wife who I NEVER met is coming.....now I don't mind but this is why I asked question from early before so I can budget well. Im trying not to get anything extra from what I already got! and my mother is saying, oh its just one more person.......one more we don't want.......SIGH.....HELP