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    I actually told a former co-worker of mine about 1 week into dating him. I said I didn't want to jinx anything but something felt different with this guy. I honestly truly felt that way and now that I think about it I don't think I ever told DH. I'll have to tell him the story tonight after work.
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    About two months in, I was really craving peanut butter sandwiches. They're my favourite. But we had no bread or peanut butter, and I didn't want to bother him at work. That night, he comes home with bread and peanut butter because he "remembered you love these things." That was it for me.
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    Well actually my dad told me that he knew that once I met the guy that he just hired that he would be the one for me, and granted it took us a year to pull our heads out of our asses and actually start dating, but he asked my dads permission to date me and I knew I had loved him since I met him, but when he went above and beyond what any other guy has ever done for me and respected my dads wishes even though I was out of high school I just felt it. =] And to top things off, he asked my dads permission to marry me too. =]] But I guess just everything from the time we met to when we started really getting serious made me realize that he was the one. And how each day now matter how much I couldn't/can't believe it I fall even more in love with him. =]]
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    Well actually my dad told me that he knew that once I met the guy that he just hired that he would be the one for me, and granted it took us a year to pull our heads out of our asses and actually start dating, but he asked my dads permission to date me and I knew I had loved him since I met him, but when he went above and beyond what any other guy has ever done for me and respected my dads wishes even though I was out of high school I just felt it. =] And to top things off, he asked my dads permission to marry me too. =]] But I guess just everything from the time we met to when we started really getting serious made me realize that he was the one. And how each day now matter how much I couldn't/can't believe it I fall even more in love with him. =]]
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    I knew right away.  H was so different from any other relationship I had ever had.  
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    It was a week after we started dating and went out to eat and we started asking each other a bunch of different questions and our answers were matching. I had a strong feeling then. But about 3 months later we were out eating before a movie and started talking about weddings for some odd reason and he said "you're going to be the bride that does everything." And I said no, "I want my groom to help me out because I think he should be involved". From there he made a bet with me for $100, Him- I wouldn't find a groom who wanted to be involved in any part of the planning, Me-I would find a groom who would want to be part of the planning in some way or another. I don't why this would make me think he's the one but I knew it when we shook hands on the bet. O ya, and I won Smile.
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    When we first met, we were set up on a blind date, and I went with 2 of my friends, and my FI brought his twin brother. When we were leaving (my girlfriends and I), I turned to them and said "I'm not sure if I even like him yet, but I know I'm going to marry him." and 7 years and 3 months to the day we met, I will be marrying him!!! I just had a feeling he was the one for me :) and vice versa!
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    Two weeks after we started dating/ 2 months after we met.  I have know idea how I knew but something in my head just clicked : )
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    Pretty much right away. It was weird. I started having all these thoughts about "when we get married..." and I was like WTH, where is this coming from?!?! Then one of my OOT friends--who knew I was dating and that things were going well, texted me (about a month or so into it) and asked how things were going etc. I said good (hadn't told her any of my crazy thoughts) she said something like "I keep thinking about what I'm going to wear to the wedding!" I said "WHAT? Are you serious?" and she replied "yeah for some reason it keeps popping into my head."

    So yeah things all moved pretty quick. We were both a little older, no BS, knew what we wanted.
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    Like two weeks into dating haha.

    There I was, on his parent's couch, with his childhood friends, playing HALO. He smiled, and it was like the world got a little brighter in that instant moment when he smiled. Idk hard to explain, but something clicked.

    No guy had ever treated me like that. It was always wining and dining (sans wine) and mooshy crap. FI (at the time he was just Josh) just sat me on the couch in a pair of jeans and got me a Coke.
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    I knew a couple months in. It was the second or third night we had ever spent the night together. Nothing really happened physically, just some kissing. We were both almost ready to fall asleep, face to face, and he asked "So... you don't do this with anyone else do you?"
    Things were not quite official with us (neither of us were seeing anyone else we just hadn't really talked about anything). For some reason that moment, I knew I was going to marry him.
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    The moment it really clicked was about 2 months into the relationship when I was visiting him in Duluth MN (from school about 5hrs away)  While we were up there, I got a UTI.  It was the first time I had ever got one and he took me to the doctor and held my hand while I tried to pee. (He was standing outside the bathroom with just his arm sticking through the door.)  He was so kind and caring while I was in so much pain.  I just knew.  <3<3<3 
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    There were many little moments that solidified my mind.  

    #1) About a month into dating, he had slid off the road into a ditch because his car couldn't handle the snow up here (he had just moved a few months prior).  He immediately decided to get a new car that could handle the snow and because he had to carry "special cargo", aka me and my dog!  He even had me help him pick out his new car!  I knew that if he was already involving me in big decisions, he must REALLY like me.

    #2) Actually, that same day he slid off the road, we had gone to visit his mom's side of the family.  It was the first time meeting any of his relatives (his mom had passed away and his dad had remarried but I hadn't met them yet).  I immediately felt right at home, and even though I was raised an only child, I was immersed in a HUGE family and it just felt so natural.  Apparently I really made a good impression because FI's aunts and uncles all thought that night that I was the one!

    #3) About 3 months into dating, FI confessed some deep stuff he had been through in the past, stuff that very few people knew.  When he told me that he had told me more than anyone else, including his parents and his best friends, that this was for real.  He was so completely open and honest with me, and while I could have been so upset with him, I loved him so much more for it.  That next weekend, I said that I loved him for the first time, and we never looked back!

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    We met in August 2008.  I was convinced by September that I was going to marry him...I just needed him to realize that I existed. :)  He eventually did, without me pursuing at all.  We became "official" in January 2009, he met my parents and brothers in February, then he went home with me in April and met my extended family.  I knew he was definitely sticking around when I walked in and found him playing with my then 2 year old cousin and 6 year old cousin with severe special needs.  If you aren't used to her, she can be difficult to play with, understand, etc, and he was on the floor rolling a ball to both of them.  I just stared as my heart melted.
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     I knew the night we started officially dating I knew that we were meant to be.  He got down on his knees and held my hands and Prayed.  He thanked God for bringing us together.  It was more than I ever could have imagined.  And we were only 15!! 
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    It sounds really cliche, but I knew the first time I kissed him. We had been working together about a year and one day after work we went to play basketball and after that we sat on his tailgate talking. When it was time for me to go he kissed me and I remember thinking " He's a terrible kisser but this is who I will be kissing for the rest of my life." The kissing got a lot better and a little over 2 years from that kiss he asked me to marry him! 
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    I was pretty sure he was the one as soon as he told me he liked me too : )

    We had been friends for over a year and had liked each other most of that time.  Once we finally figured out we liked each other I was pretty sure we would get married.  But after our second date I was sure (first date Sunday night, second date Tuesday night), that Friday night I met his family.  Around the one week mark we said "love", etc.

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    I don't have an adorable story, the feeling sort of just grew as time went on.  I used to be marriage-phobic with previous boyfriends.  But I was so completely infatuated with FI in the beginning that it was scary.  Then infatuation grew into love.  As the years went on, I just became more and more crazy in love with him.  Then about 5 1/2 years into the relationship, we had a curve ball thrown our way.  We had a choice: support each other and get through it together or crumble under pressure decide to go our separate ways.  It ended up making our relationship sooo much stronger and more mature.  At that point I went from thinking "it would not be terrible to spend the rest of my life with this guy" to "I am going to spend the rest of my life with this guy."  Then a year later he proposed :)
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    It was our second group date at the drive in, he reached over and grabbed my hand to warm it up.  It just felt so right and I just knew. :D
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    I knew he was the man of my life the moment I saw him/met him/kissed him... it all happened the same night :-) We were at a friend's 18th b'day party, he was the deejay. He invited me to stay with him and talk, during the course of the night we danced and suddenly kissed. My friend's mom drove me home and when I got there I woke up my mom with these words "Mom, I met the man of my life!" she said "oh no!" lol
    This was 14 years ago, we've been crazy in love ever since. 
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    I have a daughter from a previous relationship and I didnt let my fiance meet her for quite a while. I knew he was the one when I let him meet my daughter for the first time and he showed up for breakfast with chocolate milk and double stuff oreos for her. She was in love and so was I.
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    I knew he was "the One" about 2 months after dating him. I have never met a man so patient and caring. He truly loves me and always wants what is best for me. He engouages me and is everything I am not. After two months of dating i told him I knew I was going to marry him!

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    As corny as it may sound-The first time I saw him.  I was on a date with a boyfriend at the time and we stopped to visit with a mutual friend.  I looked over my friend's shoulder and saw him and I was kinda like starin at him and I said who's he? Pointin at him and she goes Oh, that's Ben.   Then I asked if he was dating or not and she stops for a second looks at my boyfriend and goes Noo he's not as if she did not know whether or not to answer but does anyway.  Then my boyfriend was like Well we are gonna get goin now so come on.  Pushin me a little to get me going. 

    I started talkin to him more and more but my fiance was a bit oblivious that I liked him.  A few months later, he started to realize that I liked him and he liked me too (the jealousy over the other guys was his apparent cue) and we started dating.
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    CMGr, that is probably the coolest thing I have ever heard; not that you went through so much hardship in your life, but that you have someone who has always been there for you.  We should all be so lucky.
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    I cannot really tell you exactly when I knew. It was a gradual thing. We started dating at 16 (we are now 22). The more we went through together and the more time we spent together, I just kept falling more in love with him.
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    There were a few moments, we were basically inseparable since our first date. The funny thing is I wasn't sure if I should date him since I was kinda dating someone else during the time and my mom talked me into because I thought he was cute and he seemed kinda funny so, her exact words were "Its not like you have to marry him"... 6 and half years later and we are 6 months away from getting married. :)
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    I knew he was the one the minute I laid my eyes on him. Something just clicked that he was who I was supposed to be with forever. I spent almost 3 months thinking about him before we went on our first date. 13 months after that date he asked me to marry him. I can't wait to be his mrs.
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    FI was my ex-boyfriend's friend and I knew it before we started dating. 
    I remember telling a friend - while I was still depressed about my previous relationship -  that if I was given the chance to go out with him, he would be the man I'd spend the rest of my life with. We went out later that day and here we are 5 and 1/2 years later on our way to the altar. 
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    I knew before my fiance and I even started dating. We've been best friends since we were 7 years old, and in high school, while we were dating other people, we would just talk about the future for fun. I remember one specific conversation when he said, "You know we're going to end up married some day, right?" And I said, "I know." And I really did know that it would happen eventually and of course it did or will, it's still a year away! :-)
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    I knew becuase everything was just easy and drama free. In the beginning, he called when he saidhe was going to call, he wanted to spend holidays with me and I still get the warm fuzzy feeling when i think about him even after 2 years.
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