My FI and I will be married next fall, he wants to start looking for houses, in 2013. I have no desire to look for a house that soon! We've been together for 8 years, going on 9 next April and have been living together in apartments. We just moved back to our hometown this January after graduating from college, and found a really great cheap place and I love it. He hates the idea of throwing money away for an apartment and I feel like buying a house is so permanent especially because I'm not sure I want to live in this town for the rest of my life. We basically returned becasue of family, friends and really good job market. I also have a good amount of school loans he however has none, that is one of the reasons I feel like I can't/shouldn't look at getting a house soon. Am I just being silly about not wanting a house? We are only 23!