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mini vent/rant

I'm trying not to be upset about this situation because it's so little but it's hard not to... FI's GMs have been trying to figure out what to do for his B-Party, I knew it was going to be in September since one of the GM was going to be in Europe until then. So it either had to be the weekend of the 5th or the 12th. They said they were leaning towards the 12th, okay fine whatever. Then FI gets a text saying he'll be gone from the 12th-15th. Normally I would be fine with that but that means he wouldn't be getting home until 3 days before the wedding and 1 day before the final meeting! I don't know what happens the week of the wedding but all I here about is people running around doing things and it would be nice if FI was here to help so I asked for him to call his GMs and see if he could come back on the 14th.Now they are giving him the run around blaming each other for the dates and saying they ran them by us (umm no, no you did not) and that they can't change the airplane ticket. And FI now wants me to call the last GM (the one most are blaming) b/c he is 'tired' of calling people. ugh. I guess it will be fine just aggravating... okay vent over ;)

Re: mini vent/rant

  • edited December 2011
    oopps that was way longer then it was suppose to be :) lol
  • edited December 2011
    I'd be upset too.  This seems to be just another example of how men (or even anyone not directly involved) have NO idea how much work needs to be done to pull off a wedding.  I'm annoyed that my FI's b-party is the weekend before, but it's only the WEEKEND, not into Tuesday...  That's really a bit much.  It's nice that his friends are there for him, but he's getting married, not dying, 4 days is excessive!
  • Mrs BabsMrs Babs member
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    edited December 2011
    Agree with pp. Its a little excessive to extend a b-party that long. My b-party is the weekend before but its only one night not the whole weekend. FI's is a surprise and his is in 2 weeks. The boys are taking him up north for a fourwheeling trip. I'd be mad if I were you. I would leave it for FI to handle. You have enough on your plate. You can't be bothered with his b-party plans as well as your own and the whole freakin wedding lol. Sorry to be so blunt but I feel your pain lol.
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