I'm Catholic and I have been married for 3 years. But I had only the civil wedding, very simple and nothing out of the ordinary. My cousin is getting married this November and I'm the Matron of honor, and going to all the planning and preparation makes me want it for me, everything the church (specially the church), the DRESS, the shoes, make up, reception, and all that jazz... I just do not know if having another "ceremony" will be appropriate between my family and friends. Please I need your input, what would you do?