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Any one else having weird dreams since getting engaged?

2-3 times a week I have a horrible dream that I'm dating someone else. Sometimes it's someone I know, sometimes it's not. Sometimes I dont know my fiance, but sometimes I know him and it's frustrating because we're just friends but I know that I like him, but still, i'm dating someone else. 
I'll wake up and realize that I'm actually dating...and MARRYING the perfect man and I'm sooo relieved! 
Any one else going through anything like this? 

Re: Any one else having weird dreams since getting engaged?

  • I am having weird dreams too, but not like that.  As a matter of fact, last night I was dreaming that it was the day of the wedding, and I had forgotten to book my hair stylist!  Not only had I forgotten to do that, but I also was in town which is about 30 minutes or more away from my venue, and the wedding was about to begin in about 15 minutes.  So I decided to go into magic mart (why I don't know, I've only been there like twice in my life!) and buy a flat iron to do my hair with.  I woke up with my heart racing and couldn't go back to sleep!
  • yes.. nightmares about horrible things going wrong on the wedding day!
  • YES!  I have dreams where the wedding is starting right now and I am so confused because I'm not ready and had no idea it was happening now!

    Each problem is different:
    • My hair and makeup is not done so I just have to walk down the isle as-is
    • I didn't get a dress (what is funny is that I have one!!) so I had to go on without it and wear some old dress in my closet.
    • no one from my family or friends are around and I'm wondering why I never had a shower or anything
    And with every dream, I'm all tense and pissed because my wedding will "only happne once" and I can't believe it has to happen this way and I have no time to fix it.

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  • yes.........i had a dream once that my flower girl wore a red/blue dress down the aisle (and my colors are pink and green!!!!!!!!!!!!) and when i cried and cried everyone told me to be quiet. then one of my bridesmaids told me she had a dream that at my wedding the chef didnt cook the food because he "forgot" and everyone got half...yes HALF...bowls of Captain Crunch. weird thing is we had our bad dreams the same night!
  • I had this type of dream too! TWICE. It was horrifying. I woke up in a sweat...and I don't understand it.
  • Lol. Only had a nightmare once. I dreamt that I woke up (lol) to find that the wedding was the following day, and I'm telling myself - goodness, I need to tell everyone that it's really tomorrow, I don't think anyone realises that time flew so fast. I need to call FI. Lol.
  • i've had a lot of strange dreams... tht i got to the wedding and no one else was there.. another one was that my fiance told me he wasn't going to marry me the day of the wedding... and there have been others.. i think its quite  normal bc we are so stressed and planning is pretty much all we can think about.. i've started taking a break from wedding stuff.... where i just don't do anything related to the wedding
    FUTURE MRS. ADKINS
  • ive have two wedding dreams so far, one was me sitting at a table just looking thru wedding magazines (i got the hint and didnt buy new ones for a week) then another that i was planning my wedding in my backyard. my backyard is small and we have 200 guests so i guess that one could have been a night mare
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