guest list dilema

shori140

I have a friend that i am inviting to the wedding.  I've been friends with her for about five years.  I started working with her mom for about 2 years.  We do not work closely together but we talk sometimes.  Do you think because I am inviting my friend that i should invite her mom  too?  I'm not sure if she would be expecting me to invite her and I'm not sure if i am going to invite the other co workers.  I thought if I invite my friends mom the other workers may get a little mad that they didn't get invited.  Any advice appreciated.

kimp67

It's completely up to you.  It also depends on your work situation whether you want it to be an invite all or none situation.  Personally what we're doing with FI's coworkers is inviting all of them, because there would def. be ppl who were upset if so & so got invited & they didn't.  It also depends on your budget, can you afford to invite them all & do you want them there? You can certainly invite the friend & not her mom.

Ashes_3

You do not have to invite her. If you aren't close to her or were not planning on inviting her, then don't. You can't worry about hurting peoples feelings. This is your day and it is about what you want!!

shori140

my parents want me to keep it around 175.   We already are a little over that number.  Its hard because i have two jobs and I would like to invite more people but unfortunately its not in my budget to invite everyone.