help 14 k white gold QZ ring

kristin neo

so fl and i dont have a lot of money,  and all the rings  I like where all WAY over what we could afford, so i was online and found a site that makes gold QZ rings,  I fell in love with one, i looked in too the company( BBB, google,yourtube) anyways I odered my ring and got it but I  think  the center stone( 1ct) looks "fake" ,  whats your thoughts can I pull this off or does it look bad?

the center is 1ct, with 4 - .10ct on the side

for some reason i cant upload pics:(

so im adding a link to my photobucket acc

 

Ginabean42712

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-14-k-white-gold-qz-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:d02a6ae7-1333-4714-aef8-b2d76451fb2bPost:ef343e30-d761-4d62-9512-a2c5125d06a5">Re: help 14 k white gold QZ ring</a>:
[QUOTE]Yup.  She posted this in etiquette too.  OP, I think you mean CZ, not QZ.  Cubuc zirconium is a man made substance that can look like a diamond - when it is new.  It is not a diamond, and it will absorb oils and other materials over time and looke cloudy and very fake.  I think they are fine for necklaces and earrings, but for an e-ring, I would choose a natural alternative stone like ruby, sapphire or amythest.  Many people do not have e-rings, but wear a simple wedding band once they are married.  I don't understand the idea of trying to fool people with a CZ ring.  That is very tacky.
Posted by CMGr[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>Some people just can't afford a diamond ring. Also not everyone likes colored engagement rings.  I know I wouldn't be able to commit to wearing one color for the rest of my life.  I think the ring is beautiful.  If you think it's so tacky, why just just buy her a diamond.  You seem to be loaded with cash...</div>

Ginabean42712

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_help-14-k-white-gold-qz-ring?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:14Discussion:d02a6ae7-1333-4714-aef8-b2d76451fb2bPost:67d1e113-dfcf-4f1c-8312-2f65f78b9f65">Re: help 14 k white gold QZ ring</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: help 14 k white gold QZ ring : Some people just can't afford a diamond ring. Also not everyone likes colored engagement rings.  I know I wouldn't be able to commit to wearing one color for the rest of my life.  I think the ring is beautiful.  If you think it's so tacky, why dont you just buy her a diamond.  You seem to be loaded with cash...
Posted by Ginabean42712[/QUOTE]

kristin neo

yes I posted more then once!

i was in a panic and need to get as much feed back as I could

CRGr  1~ im not tring to trick anyone,  if someone  asks i will tell them its not real

           2~  its not tacky to wear a "fake ring"

          3~ for the money I have to spend on E-ring and wedding band  CZ  is the only way I can go

I didnt asked about your views on the idea of CZ,  and calling it tacky is rude

 i asked if it looked fake

I asked for help I got it, most of you agreed with me, the center stone looking fake and the ring it self looking big on my finger

I am retuning it like all of you pointed out if im not 100% in  love with it "it not the one"

I  like asome of the ideas that youy ladies have given me:)

Ty  ladies