I was three months away from my big day when I learned I need to scrap my wedding and scale it WAY back. and postpone it to a later date. I am bummed about postponing it as it was around the corner, however my wedding just got a lot cooler. We needed to cut cut costs due to the financial strain. My fiancé and I have moved it to a semi elopement in Hawaii!!! A small ceremony on the beach and then a dinner in a nice restaurant. Of course anyone is welcome to come who was on our guest list. And I thank god everyone is being so understanding, luckily we haven't paid for much, luckily my bridesmaids hadnt made travel arrangements/bought their dresses.luckily our immediate family can afford a vacation in Hawaii and are cool with going and understand.
So everything is working out better than I could imagine. So why can't I be ok with pushing the big day back? I guess that comes with time, and time has a way of flying right.