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Inviting Co-Workers

I have a dilemma about inviting the people that I work with to the wedding and reception. My office is fairly small, about 14 people in total, and I will be inviting 6 for sure.  There are 2 groups in this office, one that is my group and one that is the same company but another department. The problem is that I work closely in my department with 6 guys and only 2 are on my “for sure” invite list. The others honestly drive me nuts.

The back story to this dilemma was that one of the 6 guys got married in September of last year. For his wedding he invited all the guys and not me. I was the only one left out of our department and am still miffed about it. The girls in the other department were even more insulted than I was. I believe it was because the bride doesn’t like me.

Anyway, I am thinking about inviting all 6 guys and just “being the bigger woman” and then inviting a few select people from the other department. Or should I just invite them all?
How would you all handle it?

Re: Inviting Co-Workers

  • I would just invite the select few that you really want there and are close with.  Weddings are too expensive to invite everyone even if your office is small.

  • If she didnt want you at her wedding I wouldnt invite them to yours. You can't invite everyone. Use the outside of work rule--that's probably your best option
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