So I had to go to the Social Security office for some paperwork, no biggie, and while he and I were there I decided to ask if getting married would affect my disability at all. Then the guy casually says, "Yeah, the payments will stop." And I'm like, "Holy crap! How am I gonna pay my rent??' So here's what I need advice about:
If I talk to more people, and find out that what the guy said is accurate, and that's really how its gonna be, should I:
-Get legally married as plan, and struggle to pay my rent? I mean REALLY struggle. Like needing to work 60 hrs a week.
-Have the ceremony as planned, and just wait to get legally married when we can figure out our finances better? Who will know the difference?