FInance and I have only been living together 4 months and when we first moved in he was the only one working, so I did the housework of course. Now we have added a puppy to the mix and the house is a mess all the time, I have taken on a full time job and work as much (some weeks more) than he does, yet my house wife roles haven't changed? Since we have been living together he has never washed a dish, cooked a meal, or vacuumed. When I wasn't working it was fine, but trying to work 42 hours a week, wedding plan (dyi projects), and cook, clean.... AH! Does it ever equal out?