Wednesday Morning

achiduck

Morning ladies! Who's up?

I'm at work and finding it harder and harder each day to haul my butt out of bed. I am in desperate need of my Christmas vacation.

I ended up getting most of the rest of my Christmas cards done last night and some baking. Hoping to get the rest done tonight and more baking and I should probably start wrapping gifts.

What's everyone else up to today?

melminna

Morning.  I'm at work too.  It's hard to come in on the days when it's quiet, like it has been and will continue to get quieter as the holidays get closer.

Wrapping gifts already?  I'm impressed.  I haven't finished my shopping.  FI and I are going this weekend to finish up since we have the kids for the next two weekends after that and won't have time.  I'm going to be doing my Christmas baking for candies next weekend with my future step-daughter and my dad.  I've already had several requests for a certain candy that I make.

achiduck

Thanks. We're super close to being done shopping. Just a few things and some stocking stuffers to pick up. I find that the crowded parking lots and malls make me feel overwhelmed and anxious so I combat that by getting my shopping done early.

Cynthia1207

Morning!

Today is my bday!  We're going to Chef Ramsay's restaurant in MTL tonight.  I'm so excited! 

I haven't started my Xmas shopping either....Slacker.

achiduck

Happy birthday Cynthia!! Enjoy the restaurant. You'll have to let us know how it is!

Blueyeddramatix

Good morning! Work, work, work! I got up at the crack of dawn this morning, got my workout done, put a BBQ butt roast in the crock pot, did my dishes, made FI lunch, and headed to the office. I finished all my Christmas wrapping over the weekend. I must say, I feel so accomplished these days.

CorgiGirl13

Happy birthday, Cynthia! 

Luckily, I'm off of work today, but I do have class. I also have a group meeting tonight - I have a big presentation tomorrow. Ugh, I can't wait for classes to be over! 

Other than that, I really don't have much going on. I'm grateful for the quiet right now since things will be twice as busy after the new year. 

Blueyeddramatix

... and Happy Birthday!

jjolovich

Good Morning! Its harder to come to work when its quieter i find myself on more and more wedding sites...even though my Fi says no plans till after the holidays :S.

As far as christmas shopping goes we are going for home made gifts this year, except for my future step daughter...we are suprising her with an American Girl doll!!

Happy Birthday Cynthia!

Cynthia1207

Thanks!

Ugh I wish I got my Christmas shopping out of the way...I keep postponing it.

katzluv88

Hey ladies,

so i went home early yesterday  had a mental breakdown with everything going on. FI and i decided not to have a wedding and probably not ever going to get married its just way to much stress for either of us. I have quit my job and my last day will be december 30. they are trying to see if its easier to just cut me a check and i can be on my way so either way im out looking for something new. life is just turned upside down for me. hope everyone has a good holiday being that im not getting married anymore i will be removing myself from here. best of luck girls.

achiduck

Katz! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through all of this. Have you guys considered a JOP ceremony with just immediate family? It would proabably be much less stressful for you.

Good luck with the job hunt!

katzluv88

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_chit-chat_wednesday-morning-4?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:14Discussion:e393a99a-6d7d-4c36-afea-589a328d6cbfPost:c9dfa799-2859-4b3e-9760-71a8ec28344c">Re: Wednesday Morning</a>:
[QUOTE]Katz! I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through all of this. <strong>Have you guys considered a JOP ceremony with just immediate family</strong>? It would probably be much less stressful for you. Good luck with the job hunt!
Posted by achiduck[/QUOTE]

Yes but i think im not wanting to get married at this point anymore. had he asked me while i was pregnant with our son or even shortly after he was born then i would be more thrilled about it but because he waited until our son was one and put me through so much i think i just need to reassess the issue and figure out what is now best for me and my son and that might mean that we can't even be together anymore.