hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2..

MrsJoshuaParker4

hello ladies

this is so totally non-wedding related, but i really don't have anybody else to talk to about any of it. 

apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday?

my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks.

my FMIL is still looney as ever.

the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me... 

how's everybody else's week going?

ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. smh.

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]There is way too much drama in your life.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>not even.. that thing called Life isn't going to well.. the rude pictures/comments aren't needed or wanted :)</div>

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : Find a therapist.  You don't pay us to listen to your problems.  What you want and need are not my problems.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

<div>nobody asked you? </div>

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : You did when you posted.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>pretty sure if i wanted your smart ass remarks, i would have directed it right at you. grow up. you're acting like my 11-year sister & her friends.</div>

lyndausvi

I'm older than a lot of the posters here.  I have to agree you have way too much drama in your life.

jhackett125

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[QUOTE]hello ladies this is so totally non-wedding related, but i really don't have anybody else to talk to about any of it. <div> </div><div>apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday? <strong>wtf? how do you make a huge choice like that without talking to your partner? makes me wonder what else he's hiding.</strong></div><div>
</div><div>my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks.<strong> do they have a custody agreement? is he on child support?</strong></div><div>
</div><div>my FMIL is still looney as ever. <strong>so is mine. i just ignore mine.</strong></div><div>
</div><div>the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday <strong>(sorry to hear that)</strong>  and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me... <strong> is she really that bad?</strong></div><div>
</div><div>how's everybody else's week going?</div><div>
</div><div>ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. <strong>smh. wow<a href="http://www.." rel="nofollow">www..</a> i hope you got a police report!</strong><div><div>Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

</div></div><div>i hope things get better for you!</div></div>

courtski2004

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[QUOTE]hello ladies this is so totally non-wedding related, but i really don't have anybody else to talk to about any of it.  apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday?

<strong>I give. Who? If it is you, why wouldn't he mention it?
</strong>
my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks.

<strong>Does that violate a court order?
</strong>
my FMIL is still looney as ever.

<strong>That will likely never change. Mine is who she is, and she will never change. Variety is the spice of life! I guess you could just be glad that there is only one of her in your life?</strong>

the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me...  how's everybody else's week going?

<strong>Godspeed.
</strong>
ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. smh.

<strong>That really blows! Someone hit my 2 week old car and provided fraudulent information, it was a complete PITA.
</strong>
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

mcda04

This is a lot to digest. Just Breathe.

apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday?
Yell at your FI for making a life changing decision without talking to you.

my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks.
Not your problem. Let your FI deal with her. If the court order says he has visitation rights, then he needs to take legal action.

my FMIL is still looney as ever.
Vote #2 for "Ignore her".

the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me...
Your mom is probably still mourning and feels lonely. Try to understand her a bit. Try to have a good time with her. Have lunch or something.

how's everybody else's week going?
It's going. I'm super busy, patiently waiting for Friday. 

ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. smh
That sucks. File a Hit and Run report.

freebread03

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : not even.. that thing called Life isn't going to well.. the rude pictures/comments aren't needed or wanted :)
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

<div>I appreciated it, I like llamas.</div>

Peledreamsofrain

This has to be the most startlingly accurate post title I've ever seen. Lol.

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]In Response to hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : i hope things get better for you!
Posted by jhackett125[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>he "claims" that this has been a thought for a while. he claims he did it for me, my stepdaughter and our peanut on the way (meaning more time with us since he does work what seems to feel like sun up to sun down everyday). he said that the offer he got doubled what he was asking (after digging around in the office this morning, i saw the original contract my FI wrote. it is doubled but still!) i'm beginning to wonder the same thing. </div><div>
</div><div>the issue with my stepdaughter. smh. her mother is a basket case. that's the nicest thing i can say. i found out i was pregnant, we told my stepdaughter and she got excited. i guess when she went back to her mother's two weeks ago, she told her mother Daddy & stepmama are having a baby and her mother got livid. that had to happen between Monday night when my stepdaughter went home and that Thursday when my FI texted her mom about the following Monday. he texted her mom asking her if she could drop my stepdaughter off with my FI's grandmom and her mom replied, " aren't getting her this week, you have another baby on the way, so go be Daddy to that one and for get my daughter." like, really? im kinda thinking she's not over my FI. but they have the custody arrangement of he gets my stepdaughter week 1, her mom has her week 2, we have her week 3, her mom has her week 4, we're supposed to alternate holidays (doesn't always happen) and we have her most of the summer (her mom's job is hectic then).</div><div>
</div><div>my FMIL just can't help herself lol</div><div>
</div><div>my mama.. ughhh. it's better for her to be away than near me, my Dad and i were super close and he died very suddenly. it's still hard for me a lot of days.. especially planning my wedding. </div><div>
</div><div>i did get a police report and walmart is supposed ti review their parking lot cameras. i'm just mad it happened. whoever did it had to have been driving a red car since there's red paint all over my white truck on the back passenger side.</div>

GoodLuckBear14

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[QUOTE]hello ladies this is so totally non-wedding related, but i really don't have anybody else to talk to about any of it. <strong>apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday</strong>? my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks. my FMIL is still looney as ever. the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me...  how's everybody else's week going? ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. smh.
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

You have bigger problems with what's bolded than everything else in your post put together.  Learn to prioritize what matters from what doesn't.

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]In Response to hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : You have bigger problems with what's bolded than everything else in your post put together. <strong> Learn to prioritize what matters from what doesn't.</strong>
Posted by GoodLuckBear14[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>who said that wasn't a priority? that's right up there with the issue about my stepdaughter.</div>

Peledreamsofrain

In Response to Re:hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2..:[QUOTE]Linger, your llama picture doesn't look particularly dramatic.nbsp; I think we can find a better one.nbsp; That llama just looks sort of...pensive.nbsp; Nonchalantly pensive.That's all I got. Posted by kwitherington[/QUOTE]

I was actually thinking he looked smug, the jerk.

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]This is a lot to digest. Just Breathe. <div>apparently my FI decided and did sell his business last week.. guess who "finds out" and does NOT have a happy birthday on Friday? </div><div><strong>Yell at your FI for making a life changing decision without talking to you.</strong> </div><div><em>i've yelled, screamed and everything. i'm more mad than anything. </em></div><div>
</div><div>my stepdaughter's mother is acting bat$hit crazy again trying to nickle & dime my FI for ANY and EVERYTHING. oh and she won't let us see his daughter. we haven't seen her for almost 2 weeks. </div><div><strong>Not your problem. Let your FI deal with her. If the court order says he has visitation rights, then he needs to take legal action.</strong> </div><div><em>he filed again.. just waiting =/ </em></div><div>
</div><div>my FMIL is still looney as ever. </div><div><strong>Vote #2 for "Ignore her".</strong> </div><div><em>i try, lol. easier said than does most days</em></div><div>
</div><div>the anniversary of my dad's death is Friday and my mother is coming to town.. a God help me... </div><div><strong>Your mom is probably still mourning and feels lonely. Try to understand her a bit. Try to have a good time with her. Have lunch or something. </strong></div><div><em>not even trying to sound like a b!tch, but she has NO right to mourn. they're been divorced for years. she's been married to two other people since him. the night we were at the hospital and my father was declared dead, my brother kept trying to call her because he didn't wanna tell me by himself, she turned her cell phone off because she was partying in New York and didn't want to be disturbed. then when she finally heard, she lied about coming to the funeral and showed up DAYS later. </em></div><div>
</div><div>how's everybody else's week going? </div><div><strong>It's going. I'm super busy, patiently waiting for Friday.</strong>  </div><div><em>what's Friday?</em></div><div>
</div><div>ETA: forgot to mention somebody hit my PARKED truck while i was in walmart last night.. and i definitely just got it for Christmas. smh </div><div><strong>That sucks. File a Hit and Run report.</strong></div><div><em>i did. waiting to hear from walmart about their parking lot cameras</em>
Posted by mcda04[/QUOTE]

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Maggie0829

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : who said that wasn't a priority? that's right up there with the issue about my stepdaughter.
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

I think what she meant was that it is not a good sign when your FI doesn't discuss major life and financial changes with you before he actually does them and then lets you find out his decisions through the newspaper.

She didn't mean that your stepdaughter wasn't important.

MrsJoshuaParker4

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : I think what she meant was that it is not a good sign when your FI doesn't discuss major life and financial changes with you before he actually does them and then lets you find out his decisions through the newspaper. She didn't mean that your stepdaughter wasn't important.
Posted by Maggie0829[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>totally off subject, but i LOVE your hair in your picture!</div>

mcda04

1. Ok. Now you expressed how you feel, he aplogized, ask him not to do it again and move on.

2. The court will probably put her in her place. He sounds crazy.

3. Kill her with kindness. Be the bigger person. Don't talk bad about her, just go along with her.

4. Ok. Your mom sounds complicated. You don't have to talk to her or deal with her, it sounds like she really gets under your skin but focus on the one day. She'll be gone after that.

5. I love Fridays, start off my weekend. It's Super bowl weekend

6. Fingers crossed for positive outcome.

Maggie0829

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : totally off subject, but i LOVE your hair in your picture!
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

Thanks!  It was the best updo that I have ever had done (and I have had a fair few in my life).  It didn't move all night long.  I probably could have slept in it and it look exactly the same way in the morning.  My hair stylist rocked it!

Maggie0829

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[QUOTE]:( 1. Ok. Now you expressed how you feel, he aplogized, <strong>ask him not to do it again and move on</strong>. 2. The court will probably put her in her place. He sounds crazy. 3. Kill her with kindness. Be the bigger person. Don't talk bad about her, just go along with her. 4. Ok. Your mom sounds complicated. You don't have to talk to her or deal with her, it sounds like she really gets under your skin but focus on the one day. She'll be gone after that. 5. I love Fridays, start off my weekend. It's Super bowl weekend 6. Fingers crossed for positive outcome.
Posted by mcda04[/QUOTE]

Um, I don't agree.  It wasn't like he stayed out late and didn't call.  He made a major life and financial change without so much as asking her what she thought.  And then when he made the decision he didn't even tell her about it, she had to find out by reading the newspaper.  This is a serious issue that needs a major follow-up conversation.  Some pre-marital counseling would probably be helpful with this as well.

The other issues she really doesn't have that much control over.  The courts will decide what happens with her step daughter.  Her FMIL is and always will be crazy.  She has Mom issues, which she could rectify if she wanted to but of course has the option not to.  And besides filing a hit and run report the insurance will fix her car.

The biggest issue is with her FI and how he thought that he could make such a big decision without including her in it.

GoodLuckBear14

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : Um, I don't agree.  It wasn't like he stayed out late and didn't call.  He made a major life and financial change without so much as asking her what she thought.  And then when he made the decision he didn't even tell her about it, she had to find out by reading the newspaper.  This is a serious issue that needs a major follow-up conversation.  Some pre-marital counseling would probably be helpful with this as well. The other issues she really doesn't have that much control over.  The courts will decide what happens with her step daughter.  Her FMIL is and always will be crazy.  She has Mom issues, which she could rectify if she wanted to but of course has the option not to.  And besides filing a hit and run report the insurance will fix her car. The biggest issue is with her FI and how he thought that he could make such a big decision without including her in it.
Posted by Maggie0829[/QUOTE]

{{{nodsheadinagreement}}}

Sierra524

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : Do you just not care about the situation you're getting yourself and your future child into?  You really don't seem to care and seem to have some child-like view of the world that everything will work out if you just wish for it hard enough and all of a sudden the douche you're engaged to will become a good and caring man.  It won't happen.  If he was caring he would have discussed such a big thing with you BEFORE it happened.  If he loved you he wouldn't be making decisions that affect both of you without your input.  He wouldn't be patting you ion the head and telling you he did what was best for your family without your input. I called you on all the drama in your life because you don't seem to see it.  Either that or you don't seem to realize that YOU are the one with the power.  If you don't like the way things are going change them.  No one but you can.  <strong>Leave this joke of a boy you're engaged to. Get into therapy to figure out why you invite so much drama into your life.</strong>  Do this for yourself and for that precious child you're carrying.  He or she didn't ask to be born into so much drama and you owe it to them to provide them the most stable life you can.
Posted by LingerLonger1[/QUOTE]

Woah. Although I do agree that he should have talked to her prior to making such a huge life decision (selling his business) I do not agree with this statement. I do def agree that nobody can change whats going on in their lives, except for that person. Therefore, if the OP doesnt like how things are, she should def change them. But for YOU to tell her she needs therapy?! Come on! Are you a licensed dr? No? Then who are you to tell someone else they need therapy?! And for you to tell her to leave "this joke of a boy" is kinda rude too. I mean, she obviously wants to be with him (even if he does make stupid decisions) and you dont really know their full story for you to say she should leave him, is kinda out of line. She didnt post on here looking for ppl to tell her she needs therapy. She posted on here to see if we could show her some support. Everybody has bad days, and obviously OP is having one & just needed a little support.
OP...you DONT need therapy. Everybody has some sort of drama in their lives, I def do. Maybe just take a step back and think about what is important to you and what you want from your life. If the situations you are currently in make you unhappy, then change it. PP was right when she said that only YOU can change YOUR life. But, if your happy, then keep going.
I hope all works out for you.

GoodLuckBear14

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : Woah. Although I do agree that he should have talked to her prior to making such a huge life decision (selling his business) I do not agree with this statement. I do def agree that nobody can change whats going on in their lives, except for that person. Therefore, if the OP doesnt like how things are, she should def change them. But for YOU to tell her she needs therapy?! Come on! Are you a licensed dr? No? Then who are you to tell someone else they need therapy?! And for you to tell her to leave "this joke of a boy" is kinda rude too. I mean, she obviously wants to be with him (even if he does make stupid decisions) and you dont really know their full story for you to say she should leave him, is kinda out of line. She didnt post on here looking for ppl to tell her she needs therapy. She posted on here to see if we could show her some support. Everybody has bad days, and obviously OP is having one & just needed a little support. OP...you DONT need therapy. Everybody has some sort of drama in their lives, I def do. Maybe just take a step back and think about what is important to you and what you want from your life. If the situations you are currently in make you unhappy, then change it. PP was right when she said that only YOU can change YOUR life. But, if your happy, then keep going. I hope all works out for you.
Posted by Sierra524[/QUOTE]

This isn't our first rodeo with OP. 

HobokensFury

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: hell breaks loose in 5..4..3..2.. : pretty sure if i wanted your smart ass remarks, i would have directed it right at you. grow up. you're acting like my 11-year sister & her friends.
Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

Calm down and proceed with caution.  You are walking a thin line here.

Sierra524

Ohh. Well I understand but I think that maybe people should be a little nicer. Telling a girl she needs therapy is so mean!! On the other hand, if OP doesn't want other opinions, she shouldn't post her problems on here. I learned that the hard way lol. Anyway, OP I really do hope it all works out for you. Take a step back and breathe. You will survive.

HobokensFury

Personal attacks, name calling and cursing are all a violation of TK TOS, which you did all 3 in one post.

MrsJoshuaParker4

well,
i'm pretty sure that i don't need therapy. lol. to even  suggest that is WOW.
i sort of understand my Fi's thought process behind it, but i'm just more mad that he actually went ahead and did it and i got NO warning about it.
as far as "leaving that joke" he's not a joke. he's one of the most successful people i have ever met at his age and given circumstances he dealt with while growing up.
i do not have unusual drama in my life. everybody has their fair share of family issues and everything else just as i do! if trolling wedding websites and personally attacking people makes you feel better about yourself, be my guest. but i'm the one with "issues," right?

i remember why i used to just lerk on this website. smh.