Please read this article written by a wedding photographer. He is saying many of the same things that the regs on TK say over and over, starting with the fact that your wedding is one day out of your life..and in the big picture, isn't what is most important.
"But when she tells me she hasn’t looked at her wedding album in probably seven years, I’m reminded of how fleeting it all can be. The bridal industrial complex, in which I’ve been a cog for 14 years, desperately wants couples to believe that it’s all about Your Day!—the emphasis firmly on the “your” part—that if you throw enough fondant and tulle and calla lilies at one eight-hour event, newlyweds might forget about the 438,000 hours yet to come."It's a long article but well worth the read,
http://www.washingtonian.com/articles/people/remains-of-the-day/index.php Proud to be an old married hag!!
